"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Golden Rule

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The Golden Rule or the ethic of reciprocity is found in every religion.

Essentially:

Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you

“Whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them.”

“A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated.”

Christianity : “All things whatsoever ye would that (wo)men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.”

Buddhist: “Hurt not others with that which pains yourself.”

Muslim Faith: “No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself.”

What is the Don Juan philosophy in terms of this principle? Does a Don Juan follow it? To what extent.

Justifications please.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scought

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haha

zzzzzz...zzzzz...zzzzzzz.......

No justifications needed for you bub.
 

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church is bad for u:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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