"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Golden Rule

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The Golden Rule or the ethic of reciprocity is found in every religion.

Essentially:

Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you

“Whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them.”

“A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated.”

Christianity : “All things whatsoever ye would that (wo)men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.”

Buddhist: “Hurt not others with that which pains yourself.”

Muslim Faith: “No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself.”

What is the Don Juan philosophy in terms of this principle? Does a Don Juan follow it? To what extent.

Justifications please.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scought

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haha

zzzzzz...zzzzz...zzzzzzz.......

No justifications needed for you bub.
 

hacx

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church is bad for u:rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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