"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The girl working the register

Valei

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Hey guys I have a situation here. I've noticed that there are many beautiful that work at grocery stores. I'm telling myself I should try and mack to this girls but for some reason I'm drawing a blank on how to go about it. It just feels awkward asking women out at a register. What do you guys think? Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Got a business card? Give it to her after she gives you the reciept. You have to be quick because you are talking just seconds you have. My advice, be that smiling face and only go to her aisle. Once she begins to smile back then you know you can approach her. Just be quick and get her number. Either way, TRY to get her number and don't rely on her to call you.
 

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Valei said:
Hey guys I have a situation here. I've noticed that there are many beautiful that work at grocery stores. I'm telling myself I should try and mack to this girls but for some reason I'm drawing a blank on how to go about it. It just feels awkward asking women out at a register. What do you guys think? Any advice?


Things must be different in Buffalo than here. I never see good looking girls who work at grocery stores.
 

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Valei said:
Hey guys I have a situation here. I've noticed that there are many beautiful that work at grocery stores. I'm telling myself I should try and mack to this girls but for some reason I'm drawing a blank on how to go about it. It just feels awkward asking women out at a register. What do you guys think? Any advice?
It feels awkward because it is awkward. You're going in with the mindset that you want to go out with them, when all you know is that they are attractive, at work, and on a possible time constraint. You haven't yet established that there is any common ground to see if they are your type. It's just not a good position to be in, to have your mind already made up like that.

That's not to say that you couldn't ask them out AFTER you get to know them a bit. For instance, you could ask them a few questions about themselves at the checkout, like how long they worked there, or if they have a book they're reading nearby, comment on that, and see where it goes.

Just feel it out without trying too hard is what I'm saying.
 

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Checkout chicks are like female bartenders...they have heard it all before and are in work mode, so they are not disposed to noticing customers and responding positively. I think you really need to have good game to succeed, but trying will not hurt you either. There was another thread in this vein, so try doing a search.

The other point to make is that if you are chasing sales counter staff, then you are not meeting enough women in other places such as Starbucks, clubs, bookshops, etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This line is more appropriate for cashiers at fast food restaurants - when she asks you "Anything else?" - they always ask this per their training - say, "Yes, give me your phone number" and quickly while pointing at her and while rolling your eyes add "but don't charge me for it!!"
 

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Thanks for the advice guys! Next time see a good I'll some of the things you said.
 
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