"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Girl who ruined my Game

Zairi

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This a story of me and a girl who ruined my game

Well I had just started evolvin' in playin'.My father was a player my little brother was a player
and I wondered why I wasn't.But instead of bein' a good player I was one good lookin' guy.
So on my road to learnin' the moves in the game,there's this new girl who comes on my class.
This girl is beautiful and at first was actin' all *****y and nobody from my class was friends
with her except one guy who was the little brother of her friend's lets call him RAVA.Well I was the first to talk
to her after Rava I think I made a nice good impression.Well we talked about a lot of things,too many to
list 'em.Well one day one of my friends told her that I was an Arab and a terrorist,thinkin'
it was funny and the girl asked with a real dissapointed voice:"Really?" and just walked out of
the scene.I am a arab but not a terrorist.The next day in class she tells me with me sittin' on her right and RAVA on her left
that she's gonna mary me with a serious tone of voice and I didn't really say anything.Plus note
this girl is extremely religious,she says you gotta save yourself for marriage.Well I didn't say
anythin' and then my friend RAVA said to both of us,well actually to her,seems like Tina's
attracted to Jonah and she didn't deny it.I also got many compliments from her like:
you're more mature than these guys in our class,you're gonna sweep girls off their feet
when you're gonna be older etc...Me as a idiot "fall in love" with her and I think I have a chance
at her but I as an idiot think that my body's not fit enough.I wanted to be like Bruce Lee cut,
plus I was slim lil' bit muscular,had an attractive body but I wanted perfection.So what happens
next I start to train with this in mind and somehow I'm too scrwed up to even train so I don't reach my
goal,so I tell myself sorry Jonah maybe if you would've trained you'd have a chance.But I still had chances,like on one
class trip.On the bus on our way to that campin' place my friend RAVA tells to her after me offerin' some of my
Coca-Cola to this girl that I'm intrested in her then she blushes and I again don't say nothin'.
Well at the campin' place this girl was in my dorm lyin' on my bed with another girl talkin' to
me,kino was there and plus she says:"You're a lucky guy you're stomach's full and you got 2 girls
in you're bed" and then after a little bit talkin' my stupid teacher tells the girls to leave
to sleep to their dorm and I feel ****ed up.When the summer vacation was near I could sense that
she was no more intrested,I didn't even talk to her anymore.Now we've started to talk a little
bit but I dont' "love" her anymore.But then today she comes late to class with a pink shirt
and suddenly I'm now attracted to her again but not in the same way as before.

Well this girl got me not as self confident as I was before.Though now I'm playin',havin' fun with
the ladies,gettin' dates etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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daceovspades

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Can you write in uniform paragraphs please?
 

LikRetsam

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The point of this topic please?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sorry guys for the bad presentation of my text,I won't write again though...

Why I wrote this?

Cause I was terribly attracted to this girl and she turned me to an unconfident guy.I haven't told anyone that I was attracted to her,I just needed to get this off my chest.
 

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God, you guys are sooo lazy. Alright, I paragraphed it for him. Your welcome Zairi. ;)

This a story of me and a girl who ruined my game

Well I had just started evolvin' in playin'.My father was a player my little brother was a player and I wondered why I wasn't.But instead of bein' a good player I was one good lookin' guy. So on my road to learnin' the moves in the game,there's this new girl who comes on my class. This girl is beautiful and at first was actin' all *****y and nobody from my class was friends with her except one guy who was the little brother of her friend's lets call him RAVA.


Well I was the first to talk to her after Rava I think I made a nice good impression.Well we talked about a lot of things, too many to
list 'em.Well one day one of my friends told her that I was an Arab and a terrorist,thinkin' it was funny and the girl asked with a real dissapointed voice:"Really?" and just walked out of the scene.I am a arab but not a terrorist.The next day in class she tells me with me sittin' on her right and RAVA on her left that she's gonna mary me with a serious tone of voice and I didn't really say anything.

Plus note this girl is extremely religious,she says you gotta save yourself for marriage.Well I didn't say anythin' and then my friend RAVA said to both of us,well actually to her, seems like Tina's
attracted to Jonah and she didn't deny it.

I also got many compliments from her like:
you're more mature than these guys in our class,you're gonna sweep girls off their feet when you're gonna be older etc...Me as a idiot "fall in love" with her and I think I have a chance
at her but I as an idiot think that my body's not fit enough.I wanted to be like Bruce Lee cut, plus I was slim lil' bit muscular,had an attractive body but I wanted perfection.So what happens next I start to train with this in mind and somehow I'm too scrwed up to even train so I don't reach my goal,so I tell myself sorry Jonah maybe if you would've trained you'd have a chance.But I still had chances,like on one class trip.

On the bus on our way to that campin' place my friend RAVA tells to her after me offerin' some of my Coca-Cola to this girl that I'm intrested in her then she blushes and I again don't say nothin'.
Well at the campin' place this girl was in my dorm lyin' on my bed with another girl talkin' to me,kino was there and plus she says:"You're a lucky guy you're stomach's full and you got 2 girls
in you're bed" and then after a little bit talkin' my stupid teacher tells the girls to leave to sleep to their dorm and I feel ****ed up.


When the summer vacation was near I could sense that she was no more intrested, I didn't even talk to her anymore.Now we've started to talk a little bit but I dont' "love" her anymore. But then today she comes late to class with a pink shirt and suddenly I'm now attracted to her again but not in the same way as before.

Well this girl got me not as self confident as I was before.Though now I'm playin',havin' fun with the ladies,gettin' dates etc.
 

Zairi

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You really should've not done that Captain...

Thank you very much Captain I appreciate it.
 

LikRetsam

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I read it. I just don't see the point. No offense meant.
 

Zairi

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^well the point is don't develop a oneitis,'cause in those cases you'll start to think that the girl is too good for you and you could turn to an AFC.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I didn't read it because jsut recently I let go of all ties to my old oneitis and no longer have any grudge against her or anything. Oneitis is a *****.
Most of the gusy on here, myself included, landed they're spot here because a girl wrecked their game and their confidence.
 
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