"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Girl who just won't go away

oranges

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There was a girl I was interested in at one point, we went out a few places, then she gave me the friends line, so I said I didn't want that so forget me, now she keeps trying to call saying I'm not mature, and surely being friends is better than nothing etc

why is she doing this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Because you have value to her? If a girl doesn't want to let you go, then you are worth something to her.

BUT, she LJBFed you because you don't have enough value in one catagory to be worth dating. That, or you give up value too readily to her (teethering on being used).
 

oranges

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She will stop calling eventually, if i don't have enough value in her eyes to date then....I'm guessing..
 

protienpowder

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Is she seeing someone? Sometimes I do this if I am seeing someone but find a girl very fun to hang out with in a non-sexual and non-romantic way.
 
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