"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Girl who just won't go away

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There was a girl I was interested in at one point, we went out a few places, then she gave me the friends line, so I said I didn't want that so forget me, now she keeps trying to call saying I'm not mature, and surely being friends is better than nothing etc

why is she doing this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Because you have value to her? If a girl doesn't want to let you go, then you are worth something to her.

BUT, she LJBFed you because you don't have enough value in one catagory to be worth dating. That, or you give up value too readily to her (teethering on being used).
 
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She will stop calling eventually, if i don't have enough value in her eyes to date then....I'm guessing..
 
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Is she seeing someone? Sometimes I do this if I am seeing someone but find a girl very fun to hang out with in a non-sexual and non-romantic way.
 
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