This girl that I just start seeing for a few weeks, yesterday she's showing classic symptoms of PMS (irritating, craving for food,...). So my question is how do you guy handle a girl when you know that she's pmsing, should i just ignore her until she's in a more agreeable mood?
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The girl that I'm dating is pmsing, please help
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Iceberg
Master Don Juan
A woman pms-ing is no excuse for her to treat you bad. She's a grown woman. If she knows she's in a bad mood, she simply should stay home and watch tv by herself.Nikki said:This girl that I just start seeing for a few weeks, yesterday she's showing classic symptoms of PMS (irritating, craving for food,...). So my question is how do you guy handle a girl when you know that she's pmsing, should i just ignore her until she's in a more agreeable mood?
And I'll say that this situation sounds even sadder when you realize that you've only been dating for a few weeks.
Anyway, it's simple. If she's treating you badly during the time you spend together, then don't spend time together. She's not your wife. Call her next week. Or better yet, don't call her at all. You shouldn't have to deal with attitude problems when you've just started dating a girl.
5string
Master Don Juan
Hide a Midol in a piece of cheese, and give it to her as a snack.
She did not do anything can be call as treat me badly, just that I realize that her mood is not good, acnes starting to appear, plus she ate alot more than usual.Iceberg said:A woman pms-ing is no excuse for her to treat you bad. She's a grown woman. If she knows she's in a bad mood, she simply should stay home and watch tv by herself.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
So she's not treating you badly. She just gets acne, and eats more....Like 90% of women on the planet. So if her pms isn't affecting you negatively, why did you start a thread, "The girl I'm dating is pmsing. Help!"??Nikki said:She did not do anything can be call as treat me badly, just that I realize that her mood is not good, acnes starting to appear, plus she ate alot more than usual.
If you're asking for cures for menstrual symptoms, maybe you should be asking your mom. Otherwise, I think your girl can handle herself.
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