"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The girl Im datings friend may be coming after me

earlkeese

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So we all live in the same building spread across different floors. I am dating a girl in the building (i know, bad idea). Another girl in the building started becoming overly friendly with my girl this summer and asked how the sex was with me. She told her amazing. So, this past Saturday we are all at a party thrown by management of our building, we were all drinking and she sat down beside me and started asking personal questions and reacted surprised when my girl showed up.

My girl told me she asked about one of my friends at the party so I FB her and she accepted and hasnt asked about him. I was also waiting to see if she mentioned it to the girl im dating to see if im on the right track with this.

Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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I've talked about this many times. Not sure why anyone is surprised that if you bang a chick right she is going to brag to her friends and since most guys suck in the sack they will want to have that experience too...

Be careful bro...
 

earlkeese

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The girl is definitely more attractive than the girl im dating. Not sure how to find out for sure, i could be wrong and blow everything up.
 
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