"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The girl I'm dating has severe depression...

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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put her on the back burner!!
 
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Sounds like you have made a decision. I jsut came out of a 2 year relationship with a girl with depression. She is a nice, smart and good looking girl but after she went off zoloft she was irritable all the time. In the end, it just wasn't worth it. Good chance girls with depression with have severe post natal depression
 
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I dated someone with depression and mental problems. Everything seemed normal - if you were not paying attention. But in the end, it was too much maintenance, too much care and patience required. You really have to love someone to stick around. I'm a bit selfish right now and need to worry about my own problems and challenges, so I broke that one off.

Back burner? I'd recommend moving on.
 
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if you're interested to know how to avoid and spot chicks with mental problems, watch the episode of 'the mighty boosh' series 3 featuring the 'strange tail of the crack fox'. that's what a mental chick's like.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My interest level in her has dropped to negative numbers, I only make contact for support, since I've been in a similar situation I try to help the way I can without putting myself in the line of fire....
 
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