"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DrDope

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Point taken, sir. I'll play it cool for longer.

Let me know when it's been long enough.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let me know when it's been long enough.
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LOL.


Maybe never.

I just think you've out yourself out there several times. She's not taken the bait - she's still into her ex. - or is hung up on him.

Maybe she'll never get over it? maybe she will.

But I don't see as it's something you'll be able to get her out of. It's probably something she's going to have to do herself.
 
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So the strategy is to stay cool and let her make the next move when/if she is ready?

Once she puts herself out there, then I'll know she's ready to move on. If it never happens, then I'll just forget about it, I suppose.
 
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Well, I got to hit it again last night, for what it's worth. My macking technique has paid off.

Is she coming around? I think so, but slowly.

I'll just play it by ear. I would put my chance of landing this girl more steadily in the 30-40% range.
 
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