Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Girl I Want

DrDope

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Point taken, sir. I'll play it cool for longer.

Let me know when it's been long enough.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let me know when it's been long enough.
LOL.


Maybe never.

I just think you've out yourself out there several times. She's not taken the bait - she's still into her ex. - or is hung up on him.

Maybe she'll never get over it? maybe she will.

But I don't see as it's something you'll be able to get her out of. It's probably something she's going to have to do herself.
 

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So the strategy is to stay cool and let her make the next move when/if she is ready?

Once she puts herself out there, then I'll know she's ready to move on. If it never happens, then I'll just forget about it, I suppose.
 

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Well, I got to hit it again last night, for what it's worth. My macking technique has paid off.

Is she coming around? I think so, but slowly.

I'll just play it by ear. I would put my chance of landing this girl more steadily in the 30-40% range.
 
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