"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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The girl agreed to homecoming... but

Michele l'Arcangelo

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The girl agreed to go to homecoming with me on Saturday, 9/17...

I don't know if she has a dress and the dance is in 2 weekends, 10/8

I don't want to keep asking her about the dance, but I don't know if she has a dress, or what color it is if she has one.

I don't want to keep asking about the dance, because I'd think it would get kinda annoying.


But I need to know what color to make the corsage, and what tie and shirt color to match her to wear to the dance.

Should I ask her this Friday and see if she has a dress -- if not, then go shopping with her to get it?

Or ask her the next time I speak to her (today)?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you serious? How can you be yelling at Viper for asking all his dumbass questions, then be asking this?

I'm sorry to sound like an ass, I just think this is a dumb question.


Just ask her what color her dress is. If she hasn't gotten it yet, then tell her to tell you what color it is when she gets it.
 

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I agree with familyman, i mean you make it sound like its a big deal:crackup:

Say, "i wonder if i would like your dress" she'll be like "yea you'll love it, its green with blah................." You know how girls talk
Late
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Are you serious? How can you be yelling at Viper for asking all his dumbass questions, then be asking this?

I'm sorry to sound like an ass, I just think this is a dumb question.


Just ask her what color her dress is. If she hasn't gotten it yet, then tell her to tell you what color it is when she gets it.
No, i don't yell at Viper, i write random dumb questions to DO something, but he makes excuses why he SHOULDN'T.
 

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So you are confirming that you are writing random dumb questions?.....

1. It's really not a big deal, just ask her what her dress color is/will be.

2. Do you really need to match her? Do you guys have to look, 'cute' or something?

3. Why would you want to go dress shopping with her for a few hours?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Originally posted by Zod
So you are confirming that you are writing random dumb questions?.....

1. It's really not a big deal, just ask her what her dress color is/will be.

2. Do you really need to match her? Do you guys have to look, 'cute' or something?

3. Why would you want to go dress shopping with her for a few hours?
Well, we do take pictures together at the dance... and i pretty much want to get my own tie and shirt... but i don't really want to see her buying a dress.... but seeing her change all the time could be pretty good too and spending ONE weekend AT LEAST to be with her couldnt hurt, since i have't seen her in a month or two...

I went to the mall w/ my friend... then she told me to help her look at dresses... i got pretty tired of it.
 

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Don't make this bigger than what it is. I'm sure the girl has a dress and everything. You're a "DJ" right? right. Therefore, handle your business. And if you like this girl, you'd better show her that your confident and in control because right now you are seriously freaking out.

Good Luck.:cool:
 

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DUDE GET OVER IT. You get her a white corsage and hopefully she'll have a dress, becuase to hang out with a don juan at homecoming without one, is like having a gun to your head and shooting your own face.
 
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