"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"The Get Laid DJ Boot Camp" Idea
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hahahaha!
I am kind of interested in what kind of stuff you will come up with to help people become more confortable in thier own sexuality.
Walk around naked? Have sex in the street?
'Be interesting to see whatcha come up with....
I am kind of interested in what kind of stuff you will come up with to help people become more confortable in thier own sexuality.
Walk around naked? Have sex in the street?
'Be interesting to see whatcha come up with....
WillieSacks
Senior Don Juan
COUNT ME IN.
Hey count me in too.. though i don't want to fvck any fat chicks or guys.
Some of the that stuff u posted in your viginity posts was very useful , helpful and a credit to ya. But sh!t some of that stuff was fvcken scary... are you thinking along those lines for this boot camp?
Take it easy,
f.
Some of the that stuff u posted in your viginity posts was very useful , helpful and a credit to ya. But sh!t some of that stuff was fvcken scary... are you thinking along those lines for this boot camp?
Take it easy,
f.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TTAG
Don Juan
Did you say something about taking us out of our comfort zone?
I like that! I'm in too.
I like that! I'm in too.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yeh alright, I'm in! sounds like fun... 
extravaganza
Don Juan
I'm definately in.
I'm still completing the first one (again. I just do it over and over to keep my skills fresh, never hurts to keep practising basics)
Btw. for all the guys who completed the first one, Do it again!!! Why?? make it more personalized and a higher level.
For example: week 1: say 50 hi's to HOT WOMEN ONLY, Senior citizens and 40 year olds are too easy
So you get the picture. Real usefull to do it again this way. I guess most people will go: I can already do it so why should I?? Because it should be natural by the time you finished the first bootcamp. If you notice that any of the aspect in there don't come naturally, do it again but set a higher bar for you.
I'm still completing the first one (again. I just do it over and over to keep my skills fresh, never hurts to keep practising basics
)Btw. for all the guys who completed the first one, Do it again!!! Why?? make it more personalized and a higher level.
For example: week 1: say 50 hi's to HOT WOMEN ONLY, Senior citizens and 40 year olds are too easy
So you get the picture. Real usefull to do it again this way. I guess most people will go: I can already do it so why should I?? Because it should be natural by the time you finished the first bootcamp. If you notice that any of the aspect in there don't come naturally, do it again but set a higher bar for you.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Oh sheeeeeit! he's at it again
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
This sounds like a great idea. I'm in.
Mr. Mystery
Mr. Mystery
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
im interested
MoTU how is the bootcamp going to be run? same format as the previous ones'?
MoTU how is the bootcamp going to be run? same format as the previous ones'?
[email protected]
Banned
A Pook does not need bootcamps...
Yet Pook would support it
Yet Pook would support it
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.