"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"The Get Laid DJ Boot Camp" Idea
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hahahaha!
I am kind of interested in what kind of stuff you will come up with to help people become more confortable in thier own sexuality.
Walk around naked? Have sex in the street?
'Be interesting to see whatcha come up with....
I am kind of interested in what kind of stuff you will come up with to help people become more confortable in thier own sexuality.
Walk around naked? Have sex in the street?
'Be interesting to see whatcha come up with....
WillieSacks
Senior Don Juan
COUNT ME IN.
Hey count me in too.. though i don't want to fvck any fat chicks or guys.
Some of the that stuff u posted in your viginity posts was very useful , helpful and a credit to ya. But sh!t some of that stuff was fvcken scary... are you thinking along those lines for this boot camp?
Take it easy,
f.
Some of the that stuff u posted in your viginity posts was very useful , helpful and a credit to ya. But sh!t some of that stuff was fvcken scary... are you thinking along those lines for this boot camp?
Take it easy,
f.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TTAG
Don Juan
Did you say something about taking us out of our comfort zone?
I like that! I'm in too.
I like that! I'm in too.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yeh alright, I'm in! sounds like fun... 
extravaganza
Don Juan
I'm definately in.
I'm still completing the first one (again. I just do it over and over to keep my skills fresh, never hurts to keep practising basics)
Btw. for all the guys who completed the first one, Do it again!!! Why?? make it more personalized and a higher level.
For example: week 1: say 50 hi's to HOT WOMEN ONLY, Senior citizens and 40 year olds are too easy
So you get the picture. Real usefull to do it again this way. I guess most people will go: I can already do it so why should I?? Because it should be natural by the time you finished the first bootcamp. If you notice that any of the aspect in there don't come naturally, do it again but set a higher bar for you.
I'm still completing the first one (again. I just do it over and over to keep my skills fresh, never hurts to keep practising basics
)Btw. for all the guys who completed the first one, Do it again!!! Why?? make it more personalized and a higher level.
For example: week 1: say 50 hi's to HOT WOMEN ONLY, Senior citizens and 40 year olds are too easy
So you get the picture. Real usefull to do it again this way. I guess most people will go: I can already do it so why should I?? Because it should be natural by the time you finished the first bootcamp. If you notice that any of the aspect in there don't come naturally, do it again but set a higher bar for you.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Oh sheeeeeit! he's at it again
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
This sounds like a great idea. I'm in.
Mr. Mystery
Mr. Mystery
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
im interested
MoTU how is the bootcamp going to be run? same format as the previous ones'?
MoTU how is the bootcamp going to be run? same format as the previous ones'?
[email protected]
Banned
A Pook does not need bootcamps...
Yet Pook would support it
Yet Pook would support it
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.