Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The gervais principle

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Hi guys! This is gonna be a bit lenghty

If you've ever worked in the corporate world, you've experienced this: The Gervais Principle



In short, it is a theory of corporate organization that despite its humorous tone, it's applicable to real world scenarios.
According to the Gervais Principle, organizations naturally sort people into three groups, Losers, Clueless, and Sociopaths, and companies survive because of the interaction among these groups.



1) The Sociopaths (leaders) charateristics are that they operate with cold, utilitarian logic, they see the company spuriously as a tool for personal gain and they rise to executive positions by understanding and manipulating the system.
2) The Clueless (middle management) are given operational authority, and they sincerely and naïvely believe in the company's mission and culture, but they serve as a buffer between top leadership and workers to enforce orders without questioning the broader strategy.
3) The Losers (the actual workers) are not "losers" in the everyday sense, but they work out of financial necessity, not ideological commitment. They try to maximize the ratio of pay to effort to survive, or the "hourly pay rate," and those are the people who actually perform the work that keeps the company running.

So the System Works with Sociopaths gaining power by manipulating information and distributing rewards; the clueless maintain organizational stability and hierarchy while the Losers do the real work.

Now, do you want to know how this translates into human relationships?
Just observe. Observe and understand how these people, depending on their traits, will end up in life.

I'm speaking from a man's perspective:
Sociopaths are those who gain power by manipulating people, and they often end up in unstable relationships because their qualities naturally lead them to create insecurity, and therefore not the perfect breeding ground for a long-term relationship. But they are very attractive, and will be seen as such by (insecure) women.

Now, I could say that losers and clueless people are very similar because they both believe in the "blue pill" of corporate life. They're manipulated from above, but to them, everything seems "real."
In fact, they put their true commitment, respect, and heart into their work. You can see this among small artisans, employees, etc.
One thing that distinguishes them from sociopaths is that they have no malice or malevolence, which is why they're what we might call those who lose themselves in oneitis.

Now we need to make some distinctions: there's another category that the theory doesn't take into account. Namely, those who have awakened: they know their strengths and are aware of the system and the manipulations at work. Those who are aware of the red pill. These people can choose. They're the best category. They can decide their role, but they usually won't continue to be clueless or losers for others unless the company is their own, and then they'll give it their all, be confident leaders, and help shape themselves into mature individuals.

I have many examples of this type, including some restaurant managers in my town (they all started as workers and worked their way up to managers).

This discussion can help you understand how we've reached a point in life where we have to decide whether to continue creating a lot of unproductive (insecure) land or invest in a few productive (safe) land, simply by adjusting our attitude to life.

Tomorrow I could open my own company in my specific field of expertise and start being a sociopath, becoming successful, without doing anything (professionally speaking).

I would like to understand how many of you were able to see these similarities between sociopathic people and how they managed their lives, as men of high status, but perpetually insecure and immature, while those who had a much lower status than them were instead excellent examples of life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's very bad to be worker bee, I prefer to be leader bee.
I'm a retired Disabled Air Force Veteran living comfortably with a pension and Social Security. I don't need to work again, but I wouldn't mind doing a part time job, heck I wouldn't mind be a custodian or a janitor, beats being in the house all day. It really depends on one's situations and where they are in life.
 

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"The Sociopaths (leaders) charateristics are that they operate with cold, utilitarian logic, they see the company spuriously as a tool for personal gain and they rise to executive positions by understanding and manipulating the system"

We're now hurling the word "sociopath" at everyone who engages in some behavior we personally find disagreeable in some way. There's a big difference between laying off workers to keep the biz from going under

VS

Someone who coerces his employee into crawl across the boardroom floor, bare-kneed and on broken glass, then eat raw pig intestines out of a dog bowl
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi guys! This is gonna be a bit lenghty

If you've ever worked in the corporate world, you've experienced this: The Gervais Principle



In short, it is a theory of corporate organization that despite its humorous tone, it's applicable to real world scenarios.
According to the Gervais Principle, organizations naturally sort people into three groups, Losers, Clueless, and Sociopaths, and companies survive because of the interaction among these groups.



1) The Sociopaths (leaders) charateristics are that they operate with cold, utilitarian logic, they see the company spuriously as a tool for personal gain and they rise to executive positions by understanding and manipulating the system.
2) The Clueless (middle management) are given operational authority, and they sincerely and naïvely believe in the company's mission and culture, but they serve as a buffer between top leadership and workers to enforce orders without questioning the broader strategy.
3) The Losers (the actual workers) are not "losers" in the everyday sense, but they work out of financial necessity, not ideological commitment. They try to maximize the ratio of pay to effort to survive, or the "hourly pay rate," and those are the people who actually perform the work that keeps the company running.

So the System Works with Sociopaths gaining power by manipulating information and distributing rewards; the clueless maintain organizational stability and hierarchy while the Losers do the real work.

Now, do you want to know how this translates into human relationships?
Just observe. Observe and understand how these people, depending on their traits, will end up in life.

I'm speaking from a man's perspective:
Sociopaths are those who gain power by manipulating people, and they often end up in unstable relationships because their qualities naturally lead them to create insecurity, and therefore not the perfect breeding ground for a long-term relationship. But they are very attractive, and will be seen as such by (insecure) women.

Now, I could say that losers and clueless people are very similar because they both believe in the "blue pill" of corporate life. They're manipulated from above, but to them, everything seems "real."
In fact, they put their true commitment, respect, and heart into their work. You can see this among small artisans, employees, etc.
One thing that distinguishes them from sociopaths is that they have no malice or malevolence, which is why they're what we might call those who lose themselves in oneitis.

Now we need to make some distinctions: there's another category that the theory doesn't take into account. Namely, those who have awakened: they know their strengths and are aware of the system and the manipulations at work. Those who are aware of the red pill. These people can choose. They're the best category. They can decide their role, but they usually won't continue to be clueless or losers for others unless the company is their own, and then they'll give it their all, be confident leaders, and help shape themselves into mature individuals.

I have many examples of this type, including some restaurant managers in my town (they all started as workers and worked their way up to managers).

This discussion can help you understand how we've reached a point in life where we have to decide whether to continue creating a lot of unproductive (insecure) land or invest in a few productive (safe) land, simply by adjusting our attitude to life.

Tomorrow I could open my own company in my specific field of expertise and start being a sociopath, becoming successful, without doing anything (professionally speaking).

I would like to understand how many of you were able to see these similarities between sociopathic people and how they managed their lives, as men of high status, but perpetually insecure and immature, while those who had a much lower status than them were instead excellent examples of life.
at the top of the food chain, is structured governance. always trumps emotional abuse. in business and relationships.
 

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Make sure to take daily walks, go to the gym and connect with people- having a coffee buddy or pub buddies does wonders for morale and zeal.
I get my exercise, and have pub acquaintances - but I that's only so many hours in a week. :rolleyes:
 

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I get my exercise, and have pub acquaintances - but I that's only so many hours in a week. :rolleyes:

You’ve got to relax, be at peace with yourself and have a calm spirit mix with eagerness to get what you want out of life. Find things in your day that brings you peace and having pub buddies to vent your frustrations or just have fun can be a stress reliever. As far as time is concerned that’s where enjoying solitary hobbies like reading, taking walks, doing art, gardening or catching a midnight work out at the gym comes in. Be creative, specialize in having fun, you’ll get there.
 
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