You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think Rex's point though was the inconsistency in how the forum is moderated and the picking and choosing of when to enforce forum rules.FairShake said:As much as I don't like his or her dumb ass rhetoric he or she shouldn't be banned for having an ignorant worldview.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Wow( . )( . ) said:
Just Wow!!Peña said:
Yeah! Did you make that picture?( . )( . ) said:Just Wow!!
Oh come on. An anti-white sh!tlib media bombards us 24/7 with the gentle giant narrative and the moment someone dare questions it in Anything else forum he's raycis? Why?Maximus Rex said:Everything you post have is either racist or has a racist overtone to and this needs to stop for the following reasons.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hmmm.....He's trying to tell us he's hungry for black men. It's 2015, nobody is going to judge you when you get the feeelz.( . )( . ) said:
MUH DIK !!.Bing. said:Hmmm.....He's trying to tell us he's hungry for black men. It's 2015, nobody is going to judge you when you get the feeelz.
Been a few years. I'm married. However, I am pretty active on the Mature Man board, probably more than you. I'm actually trying to HELP men, not run them down. ALL men. Recognizing reality is part of that.Maximus Rex said:When was the last time you post a field report
I post facts, you insult. But you want ME banned?Maximus Rex said:I seriously have to question do you like women. To have to pre-occupation with liberals and black isn't healthy.
I can't hold a candle to him, he's the wittiest guy on this board and has been for years. Won't even attempt to debate that. That goes beyond what's posted in AE.Maximus Rex said:Even though ( . ) ( . ) is the same white supremacist, racist bullsh*t that you're own, at least dude contributes to the board.[/b]
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You Won!( . )( . ) said:
Swallowman? The bix nood MUH DIK babble when stumped for a comeback generally only comes from fatal jay or swallowman. This the new "daring" sock puppet account? How's those group selfies with bemused good looking white couples going my tubby friend..Bing. said:
What is this 1990? I'm not sure a gay song used to evoke sh!tlib feelz and Frankfurt school coined buzzwords is going to cut it for much longer in light of these glaringly disproportionate statistics. How much more do you think the altruistically cursed white liberal can be milked?.Bing. said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.