She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think Rex's point though was the inconsistency in how the forum is moderated and the picking and choosing of when to enforce forum rules.FairShake said:As much as I don't like his or her dumb ass rhetoric he or she shouldn't be banned for having an ignorant worldview.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wow( . )( . ) said:
Just Wow!!Peña said:
Yeah! Did you make that picture?( . )( . ) said:Just Wow!!
Oh come on. An anti-white sh!tlib media bombards us 24/7 with the gentle giant narrative and the moment someone dare questions it in Anything else forum he's raycis? Why?Maximus Rex said:Everything you post have is either racist or has a racist overtone to and this needs to stop for the following reasons.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hmmm.....He's trying to tell us he's hungry for black men. It's 2015, nobody is going to judge you when you get the feeelz.( . )( . ) said:
MUH DIK !!.Bing. said:Hmmm.....He's trying to tell us he's hungry for black men. It's 2015, nobody is going to judge you when you get the feeelz.
Been a few years. I'm married. However, I am pretty active on the Mature Man board, probably more than you. I'm actually trying to HELP men, not run them down. ALL men. Recognizing reality is part of that.Maximus Rex said:When was the last time you post a field report
I post facts, you insult. But you want ME banned?Maximus Rex said:I seriously have to question do you like women. To have to pre-occupation with liberals and black isn't healthy.
I can't hold a candle to him, he's the wittiest guy on this board and has been for years. Won't even attempt to debate that. That goes beyond what's posted in AE.Maximus Rex said:Even though ( . ) ( . ) is the same white supremacist, racist bullsh*t that you're own, at least dude contributes to the board.[/b]
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You Won!( . )( . ) said:
Swallowman? The bix nood MUH DIK babble when stumped for a comeback generally only comes from fatal jay or swallowman. This the new "daring" sock puppet account? How's those group selfies with bemused good looking white couples going my tubby friend..Bing. said:
What is this 1990? I'm not sure a gay song used to evoke sh!tlib feelz and Frankfurt school coined buzzwords is going to cut it for much longer in light of these glaringly disproportionate statistics. How much more do you think the altruistically cursed white liberal can be milked?.Bing. said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.