"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The garlic breath story (read it for a laugh at least). Help me out.

ConantheLibertarian

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No it shouldn't hold you back. Just because a woman has a "boyfriend" doesn't mean she's not down with taking a roll in the hay with the first guy who is decent enough and has the cojones to approach her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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snowdog

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Haha... that's cool. Funny how that never crossed my mind. But she seems like a descent person... not the type of gal who goes sleeping around with random guys. Oh well, i guess i'll have to find out myself.
 

ConantheLibertarian

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Yeah it's hard to know what boyfriend means these days, there's certainly no harm in trying. At the very least, you get shot down by a chick in a relationship. No huge loss right?
 
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