"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The games work 10x better if she's not quite as hot as you. Lower your standards a l

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You have a choice.. Have boring sex with 2-3 nine or tens every year, or go for a few dozen 6s, 7s that will f#ck, suck you anyway you want, as long as you want.. What would you choose?

I think one issue alot of you guys have Is your standards are so high. Well it's like this, no matter how much material you read they don't tell you the flat out truth which is: This stuff works better when you date down..

It's unrealistic to think if you have a beer gut, not above average facial aesthetics and an only average income your going to consistently pull 8s, 9s and 10s.
But you may do really well with the 4s, 5s and 6s. And there is no shame in that.

That's not to say that hope is lost if you must have hotter girls. You can get in tip top shape, invest in better clothes etc etc.. Then you'll find you can pull the upper echelon chicks. I'm just saying to get hot girls you have to work for it and pick up material ain't enough. You need life development.

I want to list a few benefits to dating down

  • You will lay her faster. With less effort.

  • She will be more respectful, because you are hotter than her and she knows it.

  • The sex will be better because she wants you to stay around.

  • She won't **** test you as much because she usually doesn't date guys as hot as you

Dating down doesn't just apply to looks either.
If you are a 6 figure guy and she makes 25k a year waiting tables and didn't come from money, she's going to be mesmerized not because you give her money, but because you are more cultured (Just don't get her pregnant) .. You expose her to things she isn't used to seeing.

So in closing my advice to all guys is date down
It doesn't have to be too far down I'm not saying go bang crack *****s..
But if you are a 8 shoot for a 6.5[maybe she's a 7 when polished].
If you are a 6 shoot for a 5

Or if you just prefer quality you can struggle with hot chicks.. Who will toy with you, give you endless tests and not give you her best sex.



As always I look forward to feedback
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Me personally I would never "date down" as you describe it.

I am attracted to hot girls who are 8's with wicked bodies and great personalities. I will not settle for anything less than what my standards say I deserve.

However Im not saying im a super smooth dude I have a lot of work to do before I can attract a girl like that and I have a lot of improvement to do
 

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OlympicTim said:
Me personally I would never "date down" as you describe it.

I am attracted to hot girls who are 8's with wicked bodies and great personalities. I will not settle for anything less than what my standards say I deserve.

However Im not saying im a super smooth dude I have a lot of work to do before I can attract a girl like that and I have a lot of improvement to do
I said that. I said if you want super hot girls put in the work to get them but in the mean time have fun with less hot chicks.
I want you to tell me the plan in the mean time.. You may even meet a girl who's personality is so great her lesser looks don't bother you.
Hard to find a hot chick with a great personality that might be like hitting the lottery. A hot chick with a tolerable personality is more likely.

I need you to make an action plan though brother or you won't improve.

Are you going to start lifting?
When?
Improve your wardrobe?
Start making more money?
How?
Get smoother?
That's easy to fix. slow down your movements
You need a plan or you won't change.
 

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Thanks Yannick. Yes, beauty Is in the eye of the beholder. Good point. But some traits are pretty universal..

IE light eye color, hour glass figure on a woman, V shape on a man(broad chest/shoulders:slimmer waste)
So maybe a 6 may have a cute face but a little gut or something.
 
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What you guys gotta realize is that a low maintenance 6 or 7 is a high maintenance 8-9 with the addition of the gym, fashionable clothing, a haughty mindset and hair and nails.

So it's the same thing. However what our poster is saying is when females "think" your SMV is quite a bit higher that they will go above and beyond to please you...

Where an 8 or 9 is sitting back basking in the ambiance and not really working hard unless it is a celebrity or big business man...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DaddyLongShanks said:
What you guys gotta realize is that a low maintenance 6 or 7 is a high maintenance 8-9 with the addition of the gym, fashionable clothing, a haughty mindset and hair and nails.

So it's the same thing. However what our poster is saying is when females "think" your SMV is quite a bit higher that they will go above and beyond to please you...

Where an 8 or 9 is sitting back basking in the ambiance and not really working hard unless it is a celebrity or big business man...
You described my exact sentiments so succinctly. Thank you so much. You get what I'm saying bro. To add to your point..

Take that 6 to the gym with you and make her a 8. Help her change her eating habits, get her active. She will have immense respect for you because you taught her something, changed her lifestyle.. Heard of build-a bear? Get a blank chick and build a b*tch.

But it starts with you. Can't lead if your life is in shambles so get your sh*t together fellas.
 

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Girls who are fat\ugly just drop your pants and start sucking. This one I still remember, after a long ****, she was leaning her back on the wall lying on the bed, I'm on top, I started to throat-fuk her and when I looked at her with a question in my eye she just said "This is the most comfortable way for me dont worry" so I throat fuk her like an animal and finish there was the best orgasm ever and I get hard just thinking about it, but I also made some of her fantasies come true so...

But then I got this gorgeous GF and got spoiled and I still cant quite shake it off, going for the pretty ones only.

Ask any 50+ year oldschool playa and he will tell you he regrets missing opportunities couse of looks.
 
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