She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sh&t is hillarious how he opened it up... "I'm gonna pick up where I left off at - the Game, how to catch em, make em, break em, and leave em" I just stopped the video and cracked up laughing. When I stop laughing I'll try and go back and watch it but I'm still laughing too hard right now.
Yea there is a intro, I didn't listen to it TBH, I feel like he broke it down nicely though....MOTIVATION. I agreed with 95 percent of the things he said.
Ok, I finally stopped laughing enough to listen to Prt 1 and the Intro and he alright but I wouldn't say it puts PUA to shame as I learned alot more from Styles book the Game, and Rules of the Game and the Mystery Method in the first 10 minutes than listening to BlackRam, but BlackRam is alright and I hear where he is coming from too and I will listen to his complete series. I do agree with what he says as to "Mastering oneself" as I have done that and having confidence as all PUA game spitters say that.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You got an example of Challenge?