She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sh&t is hillarious how he opened it up... "I'm gonna pick up where I left off at - the Game, how to catch em, make em, break em, and leave em" I just stopped the video and cracked up laughing. When I stop laughing I'll try and go back and watch it but I'm still laughing too hard right now.
Yea there is a intro, I didn't listen to it TBH, I feel like he broke it down nicely though....MOTIVATION. I agreed with 95 percent of the things he said.
Ok, I finally stopped laughing enough to listen to Prt 1 and the Intro and he alright but I wouldn't say it puts PUA to shame as I learned alot more from Styles book the Game, and Rules of the Game and the Mystery Method in the first 10 minutes than listening to BlackRam, but BlackRam is alright and I hear where he is coming from too and I will listen to his complete series. I do agree with what he says as to "Mastering oneself" as I have done that and having confidence as all PUA game spitters say that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You got an example of Challenge?