the game

[slitherjef]

This book looks like total over the top drek full of outlandish bull. And I should have my copy tomorrow. I figured I would give one last try at things before totally giving up hope of finding someone. I am simply Tired of this crap, this seemingly endless loop of failure I have had. I am tired of falling for girls who have no interest or not seeing those who do. Most of all I am tired of just hoping a girl will fall into my lap.

Whether or not I take any of the boon into practice at least I will have something to entertain me for a bit. If nothing else a social experiment.

 

[oxford comma]

the game is a good book but don't learn from it. its all outdated. canned material is lame, game now is all about becoming a self actualized, confident man. check out rsdnation.com, i think thats the best game material online.

 

[slitherjef]

I forgot to mention I ordered the rules of the game too. I think the biggest hurdle when it comes to this stuff is myself.

 

[Wilko]

the game is a good book but don't learn from it. its all outdated. canned material is lame, game now is all about becoming a self actualized, confident man. check out rsdnation.com, i think thats the best game material online.

And I'll say this (because I think the meme needs to get out there and be repeated), more than ever it is about 'selection' right now. That means letting your lay count take a back seat and only rewarding 'worthy' women with your time and energy (or your cawk!).

It's about personal integrity to an extent, but it's very much about 'correcting' the entitlement attitude and distorted SMV's we're all dealing with out there. It's simple carrot and stick stuff, writ large.

And it does work, you can have an influence. Despite the fact that there are hundreds of other supplicating chumps ready to paw over some used up, charmless Milf, when you say no thanks, not good enough, not for me, that has ripples, that has broader consequences. I've seen it first hand.

Slightly off topic I know, but I'm waving the flag wherever and whenever I can on this one.

Otherwise, Neil Strauss actually does pretty good gonzo journalism, I'd like to see him tackle other sub-cultures - in addition to pua, he's also done survivalists/preppers. I guess the pua stuff pays the bills though.

 

[slitherjef]

So I have been reading this thing and can't help that this guy sounds almost like me. The self esteem issues, the over thinking, low voice, etc. In other words, the biggest obstacle, could be ones self.

However, I am unsure if I buy into the stories presented in the book. They still seem a bit outlandish. Things seem counterintuitive to what I think they should be. And perhaps this is my problem.