"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

The Game Neil Strauss - Outdated material?

maverick72

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 25, 2011
Messages
78
Reaction score
6
I was thinking of buying this book to improve my game.

Are the techniques in this book outdated? Any newer stuff on the market?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Diaforetikos

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 28, 2009
Messages
411
Reaction score
24
Location
Northern California
To be honest, there isn't a lot of material in there as much as it is a glorified DJ journal. Not saying its bad. Well worth reading. I just didn't learn much from it. Its more about his experiences in the game than it is about teaching others.

I recommend 9-ball from RSD. That's a journal type as well, but you learn more from it.
 

OC Speedball

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 8, 2011
Messages
199
Reaction score
10
It's not meant to help you with your game. It's meant to be his story on becoming a part of the pickup community.

He talks about the techniques he learned, but it's just to give you an idea of what they are. In no way does he teach you how to use them. If you want to learn the actual method Strauss used read "The Mystery Method."

But if you want to read a good entertaining book read The Game.
 

ALPHAROMEO

Banned
Joined
May 13, 2009
Messages
655
Reaction score
6
Location
france
rap

the key word in sarging is RAPPORT

You got to engage the woman into a CONVO IT S THAT SIMPLE


YOU ASK HER Qs always the same Qs so you re never at a loss for what to say
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

aura

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2011
Messages
70
Reaction score
4
maverick72 said:
I was thinking of buying this book to improve my game.

Are the techniques in this book outdated? Any newer stuff on the market?
It's not meant to be a source of material for routines. It was written as a warning about how weird and dysfunctional the pickup community really is.
 

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,564
Reaction score
4,137
Location
Inside her mind
aura said:
It's not meant to be a source of material for routines. It was written as a warning about how weird and dysfunctional the pickup community really is.
Bingo, but also talks about how Strauss improved the first half of the book is epic the second half is truly depressing

The first time I read it I was so gung ho about game and I improved rapidly the second time I read it I realized how depressing it was cause I finally understood what Strauss was talking about
 

I'm in the Mood

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2008
Messages
702
Reaction score
17
Location
Cloud 9
I've only read a hundred or so pages into it, but it's a good book that takes you into a new world that you may not have been in much before. You should try it out if you'd like a good read. There are many newer things on the market though - I believe the Game is about a decade old, and there are lots and lots of books out there.
 

aura

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2011
Messages
70
Reaction score
4
Solomon said:
Bingo, but also talks about how Strauss improved the first half of the book is epic the second half is truly depressing

The first time I read it I was so gung ho about game and I improved rapidly the second time I read it I realized how depressing it was cause I finally understood what Strauss was talking about
People don't get this. Nerds around the world still see this as a manual or how to guide of sorts and it's the farthest thing from it.

Neil has been interviewed recently, and he's still the shy, awkward dork he was decades ago, and he's still getting tooled. He still has not entered mainstream social circles. However, he is a revered nerd at the top of the geek hierarchy.
 

Mr. Suave

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 19, 2011
Messages
108
Reaction score
5
It's carp, get Foundations by RSD. This is the only pua program you should ever get.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top