"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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'The Game' is just a waste of my time

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I have noticed that the more I learn from this site and from my experiences with women the less I care about the game. In fact, I'm almost at the point where I just don't care to even go out of my way to pursue women. what for? why do I need to be a poon dog?

I think that I am finally happy with what I already have and it doesn't have to include my list of women. My goals have totaly shifted away from such desires. If a woman comes my way then so be it, I will charm her a bit. But, I don't need to run around like a fool chasing one. I have more important things to do with my life then to waste my time with "the game"


As for those on this site that are on a poon run have fun. but don't let it rule your life. Don't spend every waking hour thinking about your game. Your game is Bu****** and in the end it is just a hollow extension of what is missing in your life and in your mind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah it's good you feel like this man whether you realize it or not. You've graduated I guess. I began to feel this way too at the beginning of this semester, and I tried to challenge it and fire myself up and stuff, but I just eventually realized that I was finally at peace with this aspect of my life. I know the feelings you're having though and the thoughts you have in your head. I always think to myself when at a party or something, "Yeah she looks good. I could get her. But do I feel like even doing this sh!t tonight?" Or when you look at this message board and every post seems miniscule and petty. I guess I would say to you that bashing this board and website isn't the key. You have to realize just as I did that the point of this website is just to get you to feel like this eventually. This website is just basically like a guideline for getting girls. I remember when I first realized that I didn't have to be ****y and funny to get girls, and I could just be nice and still attract just as many.

Good Luck I guess
 
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Hmmm you live in Toronto. Maybe you can hook up with JB and both of you waste time together doing nothing except looking into each others eyes....

Your at a good state actually. When you have that I don't give a fawk attitude women will flock to you
 
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Agreed. I have been feeling this way for some time now and it manifests itself in increasing irration with posts that to me seem trivial. Then I think back 9 months to when I was a raw AFC recruit and realise I said/thought much the same things.

Then learning the game became, as one poster said, 'like Columbus discovering America'.

Right now the game is rather like America in about 1890 - it's mostly settled and understood.
 
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Originally posted by 00Kevin
I have noticed that the more I learn from this site and from my experiences with women the less I care about the game. In fact, I'm almost at the point where I just don't care to even go out of my way to pursue women. what for? why do I need to be a poon dog?

I think that I am finally happy with what I already have and it doesn't have to include my list of women. My goals have totaly shifted away from such desires. If a woman comes my way then so be it, I will charm her a bit. But, I don't need to run around like a fool chasing one. I have more important things to do with my life then to waste my time with "the game"


As for those on this site that are on a poon run have fun. but don't let it rule your life. Don't spend every waking hour thinking about your game. Your game is Bu****** and in the end it is just a hollow extension of what is missing in your life and in your mind.
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That's how it should be. You'll probably attract more girls ironically because you're going to be the catch because you're focused on your own instead of bending yourself to act like it. You ARE the real deal, and now you'll be harder to get. Girls want what they can't have. Sorry bub, but now you're just going to appear more attractive to women, so the energy you spent on chasing them will probably be used on sending them off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ya Kevin I totally agree with you. The more I evolved, the less I give a **** and realize that I can live without females. I am needy no longer. I have far more important things to do, then tend to the whims of a slut just so i can get in her pants. The AFC's that have no life can take care of her. Sex is great and all but there is more to life than getting laid at least in my life.
 
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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Hmmm you live in Toronto. Maybe you can hook up with JB and both of you waste time together doing nothing except looking into each others eyes....

Your at a good state actually. When you have that I don't give a fawk attitude women will flock to you
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who is JB? hopefully it is some hot chick :)
 
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