"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1) relationships will be shorter on average

2) sex will be more exotic with more types and different combinations of people

3) sex will be more frequent overall

4) the men in most demand will frequently have 100 or more sex partners

5) the number of male virgins will go way up

6) cheating will be more acceptable

7) being a good provider will matter less while being good looking and good in bed will matter more
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cool. Can you give me the weather forecast for Newport Beach, CA for the next ten years too? I'd really appreciate that.

Joking apart, I think your prediction is pretty much spot on. Especially number 7.
 
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Cool. Can you give me the weather forecast for Newport Beach, CA for the next ten years too? I'd really appreciate that.

Joking apart, I think your prediction is pretty much spot on. Especially number 7.
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I can't even give you the climate forecast for ten years from now. The dating forecast is far far easier. A nice guy beta who is just scraping by with an occasional unattractive girl now will have nothing in the future.
 
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Male providers can worry about taking care of themself and pay for it if they want it.
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As the importance of who you know rather than what you know increases in the work world, a beta geek with few social skills won't have nearly as much earning power. He won't be able to afford a professional if he can barely pay his rent.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who you know vs what u know was more important ten years ago. The big boys had too many useless folks eating fat. So not sure i agree. Someone has to know how to do the work.
 
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DFW71 said:
1) relationships will be shorter on average

2) sex will be more exotic with more types and different combinations of people

3) sex will be more frequent overall

4) the men in most demand will frequently have 100 or more sex partners

5) the number of male virgins will go way up

6) cheating will be more acceptable

7) being a good provider will matter less while being good looking and good in bed will matter more
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The resolution to this issue:

Stop complaining and become more valuable.
 
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