"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The future of dating

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1) relationships will be shorter on average

2) sex will be more exotic with more types and different combinations of people

3) sex will be more frequent overall

4) the men in most demand will frequently have 100 or more sex partners

5) the number of male virgins will go way up

6) cheating will be more acceptable

7) being a good provider will matter less while being good looking and good in bed will matter more
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cool. Can you give me the weather forecast for Newport Beach, CA for the next ten years too? I'd really appreciate that.

Joking apart, I think your prediction is pretty much spot on. Especially number 7.
 

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DiegoSantori said:
Cool. Can you give me the weather forecast for Newport Beach, CA for the next ten years too? I'd really appreciate that.

Joking apart, I think your prediction is pretty much spot on. Especially number 7.
I can't even give you the climate forecast for ten years from now. The dating forecast is far far easier. A nice guy beta who is just scraping by with an occasional unattractive girl now will have nothing in the future.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
Male providers can worry about taking care of themself and pay for it if they want it.
As the importance of who you know rather than what you know increases in the work world, a beta geek with few social skills won't have nearly as much earning power. He won't be able to afford a professional if he can barely pay his rent.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who you know vs what u know was more important ten years ago. The big boys had too many useless folks eating fat. So not sure i agree. Someone has to know how to do the work.
 

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DFW71 said:
1) relationships will be shorter on average

2) sex will be more exotic with more types and different combinations of people

3) sex will be more frequent overall

4) the men in most demand will frequently have 100 or more sex partners

5) the number of male virgins will go way up

6) cheating will be more acceptable

7) being a good provider will matter less while being good looking and good in bed will matter more
The resolution to this issue:

Stop complaining and become more valuable.
 
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