"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The future of dating

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1) relationships will be shorter on average

2) sex will be more exotic with more types and different combinations of people

3) sex will be more frequent overall

4) the men in most demand will frequently have 100 or more sex partners

5) the number of male virgins will go way up

6) cheating will be more acceptable

7) being a good provider will matter less while being good looking and good in bed will matter more
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cool. Can you give me the weather forecast for Newport Beach, CA for the next ten years too? I'd really appreciate that.

Joking apart, I think your prediction is pretty much spot on. Especially number 7.
 

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DiegoSantori said:
Cool. Can you give me the weather forecast for Newport Beach, CA for the next ten years too? I'd really appreciate that.

Joking apart, I think your prediction is pretty much spot on. Especially number 7.
I can't even give you the climate forecast for ten years from now. The dating forecast is far far easier. A nice guy beta who is just scraping by with an occasional unattractive girl now will have nothing in the future.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
Male providers can worry about taking care of themself and pay for it if they want it.
As the importance of who you know rather than what you know increases in the work world, a beta geek with few social skills won't have nearly as much earning power. He won't be able to afford a professional if he can barely pay his rent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who you know vs what u know was more important ten years ago. The big boys had too many useless folks eating fat. So not sure i agree. Someone has to know how to do the work.
 

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DFW71 said:
1) relationships will be shorter on average

2) sex will be more exotic with more types and different combinations of people

3) sex will be more frequent overall

4) the men in most demand will frequently have 100 or more sex partners

5) the number of male virgins will go way up

6) cheating will be more acceptable

7) being a good provider will matter less while being good looking and good in bed will matter more
The resolution to this issue:

Stop complaining and become more valuable.
 
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