The funniest thing...

[Oxide]

I was just watching the mystery video as I was sliding down the pepsi bottle from boredoom.. then it finally hit me. It had been stewing in my head for years now, I just could never put it quite the right way.

Do you really want to be great with women? Do you want to have emotional connections and bypass all the bullsh1t? Do you want to befriend guys easily and have them develop into good friends?

Then all you need is two things.

Here is one:

You must realize that everyone - every single person is a kid. That hot chick? She is a little girl. That tough guy? He is a little boy. Everyone is a fvcking kid, insecure deep inside, scared of the world, with the inherit desire to be hugged and accepted.

So repeat with me:

I am a kid. I am just a kid. I like having others like me. Others are little kids just like me. We want to have fun, and we are all friends!

Second thing is just as vital, for without it, the first one will fail:

Second thing - you must be genuine. You must be COMPLETELY unselfish with yourself. Drop the ego, drop the mr. awesome attitude. Be REAL. be NICE. Don't be afraid if people call you a dork or a softy - because you are real, you are just a little boy who lives to have fun.

I can absolutely guarantee you that any woman will have a good time with you if you approach her this way. If she doesn't, she lost the innocence of youth and you don't want her. If the guy doesn't want to accept being friendly and insists on being tough, then let him go play in his own sandbox.

We are just little insecure kids who want to be accepted... so embrace being a kid, and go make some friends!

 

[DJDamage]

We are just little insecure kids who want to be accepted... so embrace being a kid, and go make some friends!

Be like the boy!! http://www.luds.net/gueststars/5/goodman.gif

sorry I couldn't resist.....

 

[Kev07]

i know this one girl that tries too hard to be real, it's so stupid. she tries so hard to be herself that she becomes uncomfortable being "herself"

 

[Oxide]

Then she is obviously not being herself.

I am telling you guys - half of the time we have no idea what we are being. EVery decision we make is based on something we saw in a movie, our friends, or THIS FORUM. Not to say this stuff is bad, but how do you expect to be honest with others when you have no idea how to be honest with yourself?

What I am saying - act like nothing "adult" matters. A kid would give two shiits about what others think about his dancing..or him approaching a girl.. yet what, 99% of people here are anxious?

Me? I try to be sexual and in control. But I am still me. And I say things that are me..they usually slip out. May be having a girlfriend isn't such a bad thing - as long as you are being yourself you'll learn how to be with women while being honest about you.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Mr Oxide had an epiphany!! Actually there is some truth to this simple revelation --- children are innocent and genuine and so if we just become children again then we can all just be honest and forthright and we would all live in bliss!!

The reality is that we have been corrupted - especially today's woman -- if you do this approach with a hor you would be destroyed - as most men are today for having such a false unrealistic outlook on corrupt women!!!

 

[Oxide]

See.. I think you are wrong. Because you have no idea, since you would never do it this way. You are corrupted as well because you don't allow people "the blank state" - your prejudice blurs your rationale and you disqualify people too soon.

I don't. She is being biitchy? I will tell her to start being real with her and say that she doesn't need to put up a front for me to think she is cool.

What's funny, is that I don't really hold girls as stupid or wh0rish or whatever else... there are girls out there like that..and that is fine. Why do I care? I am just a guy who is trying to make my life enjoyable.. why would i undermine my own success by deterring people from liking me by being jaded?