I was just watching the mystery video as I was sliding down the pepsi bottle from boredoom.. then it finally hit me. It had been stewing in my head for years now, I just could never put it quite the right way.
Do you really want to be great with women? Do you want to have emotional connections and bypass all the bullsh1t? Do you want to befriend guys easily and have them develop into good friends?
Then all you need is two things.
Here is one:
You must realize that everyone - every single person is a kid. That hot chick? She is a little girl. That tough guy? He is a little boy. Everyone is a fvcking kid, insecure deep inside, scared of the world, with the inherit desire to be hugged and accepted.
So repeat with me:
I am a kid. I am just a kid. I like having others like me. Others are little kids just like me. We want to have fun, and we are all friends!
Second thing is just as vital, for without it, the first one will fail:
Second thing - you must be genuine. You must be COMPLETELY unselfish with yourself. Drop the ego, drop the mr. awesome attitude. Be REAL. be NICE. Don't be afraid if people call you a dork or a softy - because you are real, you are just a little boy who lives to have fun.
I can absolutely guarantee you that any woman will have a good time with you if you approach her this way. If she doesn't, she lost the innocence of youth and you don't want her. If the guy doesn't want to accept being friendly and insists on being tough, then let him go play in his own sandbox.
We are just little insecure kids who want to be accepted... so embrace being a kid, and go make some friends!
Do you really want to be great with women? Do you want to have emotional connections and bypass all the bullsh1t? Do you want to befriend guys easily and have them develop into good friends?
Then all you need is two things.
Here is one:
You must realize that everyone - every single person is a kid. That hot chick? She is a little girl. That tough guy? He is a little boy. Everyone is a fvcking kid, insecure deep inside, scared of the world, with the inherit desire to be hugged and accepted.
So repeat with me:
I am a kid. I am just a kid. I like having others like me. Others are little kids just like me. We want to have fun, and we are all friends!
Second thing is just as vital, for without it, the first one will fail:
Second thing - you must be genuine. You must be COMPLETELY unselfish with yourself. Drop the ego, drop the mr. awesome attitude. Be REAL. be NICE. Don't be afraid if people call you a dork or a softy - because you are real, you are just a little boy who lives to have fun.
I can absolutely guarantee you that any woman will have a good time with you if you approach her this way. If she doesn't, she lost the innocence of youth and you don't want her. If the guy doesn't want to accept being friendly and insists on being tough, then let him go play in his own sandbox.
We are just little insecure kids who want to be accepted... so embrace being a kid, and go make some friends!