"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The "Fun" aspect of The Game

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Hi brothers,

As the title suggests, most of us, during the deploy of The Game, have had the tendency to forget its "Fun" aspect, due to scarcity mindset and having too little options.

After all, it's called "The Game", and "games" should be fun. Why not?

So what is the "Fun" aspect of the game?

For example, if the woman showed high IL before first date, she's being Fun.

If the woman showed high IL during first date, she's being Fun.

If the woman showed high IL after first date, she's being Fun.

If she complies, submits, and follows your lead, she's being Fun.

If she can't make it to the date but be willing to make a counter-offer with an alternative time and date, she's being Fun.

If she gives you little to no drama at all, she's being Fun.

If she gives you white-eye BJs and sex, she's being Fun.

If she makes it difficult for you to meet? She's NOT being Fun.

If she rejects your date offers again and again? She's NOT being Fun.

If she makes you wait for sex? She's NOT being Fun.

If she asks to borrow money from you after only one date? She's NOT being Fun.

If she brings up the "Relationship" talk way too early during the dating/flirting period? She's NOT being Fun.


etc... the exampes go on. You can imagine it.

So, at any given moment in your interaction (I prefer to avoid the concept of "relationship") with women, the Game stops when they stop being Fun. On the other hand: As long as the women you're seeing/banging are being Fun, the Game continues.

In the past, I used to put up with way too many women/relationships that were no longer "Fun" just because I am afraid to "lose" them.

Now? If I spend and invest my precious Time/Energy/Mental Energy/Money... in a woman, she at least needs to be Fun for me to want to be around her.

If she's not Fun? Then we stop.

At the end of the day, why waste time with a woman that's not Fun? Life is way too short for that sh!t.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I had endless fun running the shock & awe approach for the LuLz. Them reactions were eye-opening as much for me as it was for them hoes.
 
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