"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The "Fun" aspect of The Game

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Hi brothers,

As the title suggests, most of us, during the deploy of The Game, have had the tendency to forget its "Fun" aspect, due to scarcity mindset and having too little options.

After all, it's called "The Game", and "games" should be fun. Why not?

So what is the "Fun" aspect of the game?

For example, if the woman showed high IL before first date, she's being Fun.

If the woman showed high IL during first date, she's being Fun.

If the woman showed high IL after first date, she's being Fun.

If she complies, submits, and follows your lead, she's being Fun.

If she can't make it to the date but be willing to make a counter-offer with an alternative time and date, she's being Fun.

If she gives you little to no drama at all, she's being Fun.

If she gives you white-eye BJs and sex, she's being Fun.

If she makes it difficult for you to meet? She's NOT being Fun.

If she rejects your date offers again and again? She's NOT being Fun.

If she makes you wait for sex? She's NOT being Fun.

If she asks to borrow money from you after only one date? She's NOT being Fun.

If she brings up the "Relationship" talk way too early during the dating/flirting period? She's NOT being Fun.


etc... the exampes go on. You can imagine it.

So, at any given moment in your interaction (I prefer to avoid the concept of "relationship") with women, the Game stops when they stop being Fun. On the other hand: As long as the women you're seeing/banging are being Fun, the Game continues.

In the past, I used to put up with way too many women/relationships that were no longer "Fun" just because I am afraid to "lose" them.

Now? If I spend and invest my precious Time/Energy/Mental Energy/Money... in a woman, she at least needs to be Fun for me to want to be around her.

If she's not Fun? Then we stop.

At the end of the day, why waste time with a woman that's not Fun? Life is way too short for that sh!t.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had endless fun running the shock & awe approach for the LuLz. Them reactions were eye-opening as much for me as it was for them hoes.
 
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