The "Friendzone" and what it REALLY means.

[JackPrescott]

In the wonderful world of dating, there is such a hated, vile, disrespected and repulsive thing known as the "Friendszone" or "LJBF" AKA Lets just be friends, which actually translates to "I think you are sexually repulsive, and I wouldnt sleep with you even if you put a gun to my head"....It unfortunatley exists. There is nothing one can do about it, once he is put into the friendszone, but cut his losses, and move on. A true DJ refuses to be in the Friendszone, and leaves immediatley after hearing these words. An AFC sticks around, and hangs around the object of his unrequited desires, while she shops and watches movies, and even goes clubbing. She eventually picks up a man in front of him, and he soon becomes the emotional tampon, and gets to hear stories of how the lousy SOB wont even call the AM after anal sex.

The best revenge for being put in the friendszone is dating a better looking woman right in front of the old object of desire. Thoughts on this matter?

 

[DonJuan11]

The best revenge for being put in the friendszone is dating a better looking woman

You are right here.


right in front of the old object of desire.

and not right here.

If your goal is to show off to the girl who LJBF'd you, just hire an escort. If your goal is the live life to the fullest and be the best you can be so the better looking women will want to be with you, spend time with you and eventually want to sleep with you, then you may be on to something.

 

[Andromax]

The best revenge for being put in the friendszone.

You sound like someone just put you in the friendzone?

 

[JackPrescott]

You sound like someone just put you in the friendzone?

If I am working on 7 gals, at least 2-3 will put me there, and it happens often. I am not a millionaire, so I dont have a 110% success rate. But it keeps you on your toes, and thinking on your feet. The trick is to be so busy with other options, that you barely have time to lament the loss.

 

[JackPrescott]

If your goal is to show off to the girl who LJBF'd you, just hire an escort. If your goal is the live life to the fullest and be the best you can be so the better looking women will want to be with you, spend time with you and eventually want to sleep with you, then you may be on to something.

The goal is that, plus revenge. Remember, Wrath of Khan? "There is an ancient Kliingon Proverb that states that Revenge is a dish that is best served cold."

 

[ready123]

best revenge is to not even think about revenge and just move on with your life

dating someone as a jealousy plotline AFTER the rejection is still reacting to the original girl. in your head you're thinking, yea I'm getting her good. meanwhile, if she has any kind of social intelligence, she's thinking, he's doing it to get attention from me, who gives a sht

seriously, waht would bug you more. somebody acknowledging your existance, albiet in a negative way, or someone going on with their life as if you didn't even matter

 

[JackPrescott]

best revenge is to not even think about revenge and just move on with your life

dating someone as a jealousy plotline AFTER the rejection is still reacting to the original girl. in your head you're thinking, yea I'm getting her good. meanwhile, if she has any kind of social intelligence, she's thinking, he's doing it to get attention from me, who gives a sht

seriously, waht would bug you more. somebody acknowledging your existance, albiet in a negative way, or someone going on with their life as if you didn't even matter

Negativity.

 

[ready123]

sucks to be you

 

[Andromax]

haha.. he's just sore. He'll get over it. I believe in him.

As for me.. I broke my no contact with my ex a minute ago. I need to be shot.

She kept texting me and msging me on myspace.

Leave it to alcohol to **** that up.

Oh well all I said was Tom Seleck is the man!!

 

[Last Man Standing]

""'Friend' zoned" means that she doesn't even want you as a friend!!! Don't you love the cruel irony!!!!

 

[JackPrescott]

haha.. he's just sore. He'll get over it. I believe in him.

As for me.. I broke my no contact with my ex a minute ago. I need to be shot.

She kept texting me and msging me on myspace.

Leave it to alcohol to **** that up.

Oh well all I said was Tom Seleck is the man!!

Well, sore isnt the right word. What DJ or normal male likes to be friendszoned? It is a vile thing, it is disaffirmation of your malehood, it is "you arent good enough for me to mate with" it is rejection lite. Still, the fires of revenge keep one going.

 

[JackPrescott]

""'Friend' zoned" means that she doesn't even want you as a friend!!! Don't you love the cruel irony!!!!

This is true. But in all reality, I dont do the male friends thing, so when a woman "LJBF" me it is an end to the entire transaction process. It is pointless to call or waste time and energy on her anymore.

 

[JackPrescott]

sucks to be you

Does it? Do YOU enjoy losing, ready123? I certainly dont. I play to WIN. I am a highly competetive MOFO by nature, whether a powerlifting contest, a bodybuilding show, a kareokee contest, or a game of tiddly winks. I dont enjoy losing. When I was in High School, I was a player for a Championship Football Team. Getting that trophy, and medal around my neck was an intense rush. I entered an art contest (National) my senior year, and spent a semester on my entry, but guess what? It won First Award, and hung in the White House for a year. I attended a local powerlifting contest at the Y a few years later as a spectator and thought to myself "I can get up more than the trophy winners, and within 2 years, had won Best Overall Male.

Whether in a streetfight, or trying to woo a woman, I enjoy WINNING. I play to win, I have little interest in the game itself. Have you ever been confronted by a bully at the bar, and gotten your ass handed to you in front of your friends, and all the ladies? Was it a nice feeling? When I get in a streetfight, I fight to win.

With women, I dont do the "cold approach" By the time I have decided to come on to her, I have gotten some signals that she is interested. Unfortulatley, women being the fake ass flakes that they are spiritually, play little games with men, especially Attention W*hores. So what pisses me off, is not only losing, and being "Friendszoned" but wasting valuable time, energy and effort on them before they grow the intestinal fortitude AKA "Balls" to tell the male "No thanks, I wont ever fukk you, but we can be friends"

The entire concept makes me want to vomit.

 

[KontrollerX]

A+ thread.

 

[reset]

It's usually not good but you can be put in the friend zone thing if the chick is nervous about taking things fast.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Has anyone been put in the friendzone after they already banged her?

 

[DonGorgon]

I dont get the friend zone either they want to f me or they dont.

 

[JackPrescott]

It's usually not good but you can be put in the friend zone thing if the chick is nervous about taking things fast.

This is true. If the case, once she sees that you have moved on, there is a 10% chance that she will miss your undivided attention, and that her female "catty" instincts will not be too happy about another woman getting it. Thats when you have her under your foot.

 

[crossboss]

I was wondering

If you are friends with a girl, and you just want to have a sexual relationship...just keep flirting and kinoing her often to stay out of the friend zone???

 

[JackPrescott]

If you are friends with a girl, and you just want to have a sexual relationship...just keep flirting and kinoing her often to stay out of the friend zone???

This, mixed with letting her know in no uncertain terms that you are seeing other women could produce interesting results.