"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The four male camps

El Payaso

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  1. The white knight camp: “Women are all saints and angels and must be protected from horrible men!”

  2. The doesn’t care camp: “I don’t really know what women’s deal is, but so long as I’ve got one to cook me dinner and give me a blow job I don’t worry about it.”

  3. The bitter guy camp: “Women are all evil, scheming, manipulative succubae whose sole purpose in life is to cause men misery!”

  4. The ladies man camp: “Women are cute, silly beings who can be fickle and changeable, but they’re a whole heck of a lot of fun.”
Source: girlschase
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm type 4 with a great deal of type 2. Type 3 does have a point since that type of women do exist, but they are wrong to assume most/all women are like that.

Type 1 are more delusional than type 3.
 

Slash Dolo

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3 seems to be the norm here. I'm guilty of it too.
 

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Yup, mostly type 4 on the outside but internally half types 4 and 2. :p
 

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I think you are missing a few categories.
5. I like women because I can't suck my own ****. Apart from that they are no use to me.

6. I like hot women because they make me feel like a real man and I get bragging rights (even though they are usually a pain in the ass).

7. They are just like men, but have boobies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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8. Women are completely different creatures than men, but after many hardships with them i now know how to coexist with them enough to get what i need and also protect myself
 

RangerMIke

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I guess I'm firmly in camp 4. Ladies are fun, just understand their nature... just don't take them serious and it's all good. As soon as they stop being fun... dump them.
 

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8. Women are completely different creatures than men, but after many hardships with them i now know how to coexist with them enough to get what i need and also protect myself
Is that not within type 2?

Getting what you want and the protection being not to care.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

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Leaning towards type 4 with moments of type 6.
 

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Went from type 1 to type 3 then ended up a type 4.

Life is short, and the ladies are comic relief / therapy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I'm a mix of 2 and 3 and 5, but I was a 1 throughout middle school, high school and my 20's.

A white knight in his 20's will become a 3 in his 30's.
 

C00lAF

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A mix of 3 and 4 sometimes 2 with that
 
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