"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The four male camps

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  1. The white knight camp: “Women are all saints and angels and must be protected from horrible men!”

  2. The doesn’t care camp: “I don’t really know what women’s deal is, but so long as I’ve got one to cook me dinner and give me a blow job I don’t worry about it.”

  3. The bitter guy camp: “Women are all evil, scheming, manipulative succubae whose sole purpose in life is to cause men misery!”

  4. The ladies man camp: “Women are cute, silly beings who can be fickle and changeable, but they’re a whole heck of a lot of fun.”
Source: girlschase
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm type 4 with a great deal of type 2. Type 3 does have a point since that type of women do exist, but they are wrong to assume most/all women are like that.

Type 1 are more delusional than type 3.
 

Slash Dolo

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3 seems to be the norm here. I'm guilty of it too.
 

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Yup, mostly type 4 on the outside but internally half types 4 and 2. :p
 

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I think you are missing a few categories.
5. I like women because I can't suck my own ****. Apart from that they are no use to me.

6. I like hot women because they make me feel like a real man and I get bragging rights (even though they are usually a pain in the ass).

7. They are just like men, but have boobies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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8. Women are completely different creatures than men, but after many hardships with them i now know how to coexist with them enough to get what i need and also protect myself
 

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I guess I'm firmly in camp 4. Ladies are fun, just understand their nature... just don't take them serious and it's all good. As soon as they stop being fun... dump them.
 

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8. Women are completely different creatures than men, but after many hardships with them i now know how to coexist with them enough to get what i need and also protect myself
Is that not within type 2?

Getting what you want and the protection being not to care.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

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Leaning towards type 4 with moments of type 6.
 

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Went from type 1 to type 3 then ended up a type 4.

Life is short, and the ladies are comic relief / therapy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I'm a mix of 2 and 3 and 5, but I was a 1 throughout middle school, high school and my 20's.

A white knight in his 20's will become a 3 in his 30's.
 

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A mix of 3 and 4 sometimes 2 with that
 
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