"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Forty Old Virgin - essential viewing
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
I keep hearing that. What does that even mean?Originally posted by i am me
don't put the pu$$y up on a pedastool
aftershock
Master Don Juan
It means not to hype women up to be something that they're not. Look up "pedestal" in a dictionary for a better definition.
I saw the movie tonight. Funny in places. A DJ should be able to work out what he does right, and what he does wrong. Personally I thought that the bookstore approach was pure gold - apart from not getting the number!
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
Hehheh. I was making a reference to the movie. He asks that question. It probably wasn't the exact wording though.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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It's a movie and not life, so don't watch it thinking you'll learn something relevant. Of course you might, but just watch it to be entertained and you won't be disappointed.