"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the flu

joekerr31

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anyone have any remedies for the flu?

everyone is getting sick where I live. why when it starts to warm up outside does everyone get sick?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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joekerr31 said:
anyone have any remedies for the flu?

everyone is getting sick where I live. why when it starts to warm up outside does everyone get sick?
rest , eat chicken noodle soup, sleep, drink plenty of water, take the vit c... and read !!
hot totties!
 

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My brother and one of my best friends are suffering with the flu right now. I've been lucky not to catch it. I think it's because I wash my hands often and have been taking vitamin supplements.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been eating bananas and drinking gree tea, as mentioned by someone on here... I'm having problems in the bathroom arena(you know what I mean) I'm not sure if I have the flu or what, but it's something.

Really tired, I'm having the runs, almost had an accident today...not funny at all.... well maybe a little. Awful gassy...
 
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