"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the flu

joekerr31

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anyone have any remedies for the flu?

everyone is getting sick where I live. why when it starts to warm up outside does everyone get sick?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joekerr31 said:
anyone have any remedies for the flu?

everyone is getting sick where I live. why when it starts to warm up outside does everyone get sick?
rest , eat chicken noodle soup, sleep, drink plenty of water, take the vit c... and read !!
hot totties!
 

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My brother and one of my best friends are suffering with the flu right now. I've been lucky not to catch it. I think it's because I wash my hands often and have been taking vitamin supplements.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've been eating bananas and drinking gree tea, as mentioned by someone on here... I'm having problems in the bathroom arena(you know what I mean) I'm not sure if I have the flu or what, but it's something.

Really tired, I'm having the runs, almost had an accident today...not funny at all.... well maybe a little. Awful gassy...
 
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