this is what i found in the internet by an author.....
"When you approach women, one of three things may
happen (depending on your timing and purpose)
First Scenario: She loves it. She smiles. She
becomes extremely flattered. She wants to get to
know you.
Second Scenario: She kind of likes it. She's not
really enthusiastic about it. She's just being polite
and sticks around for a bit to see what you have to say.
Third Scenario: She gives you an objection, tries
to walk away, or doesn't give you the time of day.
I absolutely love the third scenario because it's
challenging for me. I also get to express my personality
and my positive traits.
Here are some examples of how you can handle certain
situations.
***
Scenario 1: The Boyfriend Objection
Guy: Opener
Girl: I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend.
Guy: Awesome, So what do you like to do for fun?
*I'm not even acknowledging her objection. Indifference
by far is the most powerful way to overcome this objection.
Scenario 2: She Walks Away While You're Talking To Her
Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk
Girl: Talks and walks away
Guy: (smiles) Oh come on now, you're way too classy to
be walking away when someone is talking to you. But if
I'm making you uncomfortable in anyway, then just
walk away. Go on now. Runaway girl, Runaway girl
(I sing playfully) Anyways, what do you do for fun?
* As you can see, I set up an expectation for her. I tell
her she's way too classy to walk away, and of course she
wants to be perceived as classy so she will stay for a bit.
I also tell her to walk away which is reverse psychology
and then I act like it never happened by asking her a
question, which re-engages her back in the conversation.
Scenario 3:She's Rude Or Doesn't Acknowledge Your Presence
Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk
Girl: Says something rude like "Why are you talking
to me", doesn't look at you, or something to that effect.
Guy: Why are you acting like this? Why can't you just
be yourself. I don't know where you're from but where
I'm from, people are real.
If you're not going to be real, I'm just going to walk
away (I act as if I'm about to leave). I know this is not
who you really are. This is just a protection shield.
Guy: I understand. Come on, look around you.
There are a lot of creepy guys out there that try to get
something from you all the time. I'm not one of those
guys so don't treat me like one of them. I know you're
a cool person deep down inside. I'm almost sure. So
let's give this a shot one more time, I'm Oliver.
Girl: I'm Michelle. Sorry I was being rude, I was just
having a bad day.
Guy: No worries. So what do you do for fun?
***
These are the three most common objections that
women will throw your way.
If you are prepared for these situations, then you will
become unstoppable.
Trust me."
"When you approach women, one of three things may
happen (depending on your timing and purpose)
First Scenario: She loves it. She smiles. She
becomes extremely flattered. She wants to get to
know you.
Second Scenario: She kind of likes it. She's not
really enthusiastic about it. She's just being polite
and sticks around for a bit to see what you have to say.
Third Scenario: She gives you an objection, tries
to walk away, or doesn't give you the time of day.
I absolutely love the third scenario because it's
challenging for me. I also get to express my personality
and my positive traits.
Here are some examples of how you can handle certain
situations.
***
Scenario 1: The Boyfriend Objection
Guy: Opener
Girl: I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend.
Guy: Awesome, So what do you like to do for fun?
*I'm not even acknowledging her objection. Indifference
by far is the most powerful way to overcome this objection.
Scenario 2: She Walks Away While You're Talking To Her
Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk
Girl: Talks and walks away
Guy: (smiles) Oh come on now, you're way too classy to
be walking away when someone is talking to you. But if
I'm making you uncomfortable in anyway, then just
walk away. Go on now. Runaway girl, Runaway girl
(I sing playfully) Anyways, what do you do for fun?
* As you can see, I set up an expectation for her. I tell
her she's way too classy to walk away, and of course she
wants to be perceived as classy so she will stay for a bit.
I also tell her to walk away which is reverse psychology
and then I act like it never happened by asking her a
question, which re-engages her back in the conversation.
Scenario 3:She's Rude Or Doesn't Acknowledge Your Presence
Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk
Girl: Says something rude like "Why are you talking
to me", doesn't look at you, or something to that effect.
Guy: Why are you acting like this? Why can't you just
be yourself. I don't know where you're from but where
I'm from, people are real.
If you're not going to be real, I'm just going to walk
away (I act as if I'm about to leave). I know this is not
who you really are. This is just a protection shield.
Guy: I understand. Come on, look around you.
There are a lot of creepy guys out there that try to get
something from you all the time. I'm not one of those
guys so don't treat me like one of them. I know you're
a cool person deep down inside. I'm almost sure. So
let's give this a shot one more time, I'm Oliver.
Girl: I'm Michelle. Sorry I was being rude, I was just
having a bad day.
Guy: No worries. So what do you do for fun?
***
These are the three most common objections that
women will throw your way.
If you are prepared for these situations, then you will
become unstoppable.
Trust me."