"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Female Imperative

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Interesting article about Female Imperative.


In today’s feminine-primary social order, the Feminine Imperative wants nothing less than complete abandonment from men – and it will use every social and political means available to insure men do.

Is the article right, wrong or in between? Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've read The Rational Male and though I do think Rollo has some good concepts and I agree with many of them, TRM is 100% down the rabbit hole red pill thinking.

100% of anything is never good.

To be successful in any endeavor one must learn to critically think, separate the wheat from the chaff and learn to use what works best.

Politically, I'm a moderate. Some of my friends are bona fide 100% Republicans. I mean they will back a leader and principles no matter what and promote 100% of their agenda. You cannot tell them otherwise, almost like they're brainwashed. They're educated but have lost the ability to critically think and question some of their leaders and principles.

So regarding Rollo, personally I feel the Female Imperative is exaggerated and extreme. Rollo is married and writes from an almost exclusively theoretical and hypothetical viewpoint. Kind of like learning how to be an entrepreneur in college. It's MUCH different in the real world.

My advice is to not buy into anything 100%. Learn and use what works for you personally because everyone is different. The key is practice and making adjustments, always aiming for True North.

Good luck.

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Kinda agree with Dash here and I do feel Rollo is obsessed with hypergamy, something I feel he's 1/2 right - if a man is at the bottom of the barrel then hypergamy exists yet it doesn't when a women is in love or faced with a man that is above par.

The feminine imperative is actually simple = her survival 1st (includes lifestyle) and 2nd that of her offspring.

It's embedded within their DNA since the beginning of time or at the 1st creation of the female.
 
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