"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Manonamission

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I agree, cold approaches are the best, especially if you see a chick that you really like.. (like how she's put together that is). Typically what I do is last time I saw a chick at work, she was an employee, considering I worked at a Major League ballpark I asked her if she could help me with something, I led her away from the stands and just started talking about her, asking her questions, finally 5 minutes later she asked "where are we going, what did you need help with again." and i said "I don't actually need help with anything, I just thought you were attractive and wanted to talk to you a little bit, see what you're like. I need you to give me your number so we can hang out."

Done and done.

Chicks love cold approaches if its done effectively, this chick above that I cold approached loved the fact that I came up to her randomly and talked to her, she said "It was weird, definatly made you stand out." Then I asked her if it would have been better if I had just introduced myself, talked to her several times and then asked for her number, and I was glad to hear whta she said.

She replied, "No, because if guys don't have the balls to approach and say what they want, then they aren't worth it."----> BINGO. Later that summer, she started getting *****y and I stopped talking to her. She then IMs me telling me that she didn't realize what she had, and that she ****ed up.

I said back, "Live and learn, just next time you get your hands on a great catch, don't let it get away again."

So you see gentlemen, cold approaches DO WORK. Just by approaching a chick, and as long as you don't appear to be a nervous wreck, I bet most of you will walk away with a number.

So cold approaches do work, women love it, as long as you don't get stagefright.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Blackdragon5095

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If I didn't do cold approaches then how I do my appoarch jounral ??
Sometimes it depends on the girl's mood. I had girls be into me and real easy to talk up. Other times I had girls be real cold to me. I said something like isn't it cold out here and had them smile at me.
 
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