"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The feeling on cold approaches around here...

Manonamission

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I agree, cold approaches are the best, especially if you see a chick that you really like.. (like how she's put together that is). Typically what I do is last time I saw a chick at work, she was an employee, considering I worked at a Major League ballpark I asked her if she could help me with something, I led her away from the stands and just started talking about her, asking her questions, finally 5 minutes later she asked "where are we going, what did you need help with again." and i said "I don't actually need help with anything, I just thought you were attractive and wanted to talk to you a little bit, see what you're like. I need you to give me your number so we can hang out."

Done and done.

Chicks love cold approaches if its done effectively, this chick above that I cold approached loved the fact that I came up to her randomly and talked to her, she said "It was weird, definatly made you stand out." Then I asked her if it would have been better if I had just introduced myself, talked to her several times and then asked for her number, and I was glad to hear whta she said.

She replied, "No, because if guys don't have the balls to approach and say what they want, then they aren't worth it."----> BINGO. Later that summer, she started getting *****y and I stopped talking to her. She then IMs me telling me that she didn't realize what she had, and that she ****ed up.

I said back, "Live and learn, just next time you get your hands on a great catch, don't let it get away again."

So you see gentlemen, cold approaches DO WORK. Just by approaching a chick, and as long as you don't appear to be a nervous wreck, I bet most of you will walk away with a number.

So cold approaches do work, women love it, as long as you don't get stagefright.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blackdragon5095

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If I didn't do cold approaches then how I do my appoarch jounral ??
Sometimes it depends on the girl's mood. I had girls be into me and real easy to talk up. Other times I had girls be real cold to me. I said something like isn't it cold out here and had them smile at me.
 
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