Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The fear of turning 40

nkh78h

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I'm still in my 20s but I'll admit that the thought of getting old can be a bit scary. If I even talk to young ladies when I'm in my 50s or 60s, chances are they'll think of me as a creepy old man/pervert even if all I'm doing is talking. Ahh, the smell of ageism in the morning.

But as one of my elementary school teachers once said: every age has its benefits! :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Life is short and it's filled with a lot of distraction. But you have to keep moving forward, growing and expanding.

This internet age has changed the game, in terms of having a traditional life. We're *not* living in the world where you go to school until 18, go to college for 4 years, graduate at 21/22, marry in a few years, then work for 40 years, and retire.

There's so much opportunity. So much opportunity to meet people and do things.

If you just keep your mind active, and your health well, you'll be doing good.

Agree..."Aging is a myth perpetuated by the obese and the lazy."
 
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