"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The fear of turning 40

nkh78h

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I'm still in my 20s but I'll admit that the thought of getting old can be a bit scary. If I even talk to young ladies when I'm in my 50s or 60s, chances are they'll think of me as a creepy old man/pervert even if all I'm doing is talking. Ahh, the smell of ageism in the morning.

But as one of my elementary school teachers once said: every age has its benefits! :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Life is short and it's filled with a lot of distraction. But you have to keep moving forward, growing and expanding.

This internet age has changed the game, in terms of having a traditional life. We're *not* living in the world where you go to school until 18, go to college for 4 years, graduate at 21/22, marry in a few years, then work for 40 years, and retire.

There's so much opportunity. So much opportunity to meet people and do things.

If you just keep your mind active, and your health well, you'll be doing good.

Agree..."Aging is a myth perpetuated by the obese and the lazy."
 
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