I think this could be one of my best posts made on the internet concerning seduction.
A quick intro:
I'm almost 21 years, I'm like 2.5 year in the community. Read a lot of stuff, met a lot of pua's, sarged with them etc. Made huge progress the last years. But I wasn't happy with the results.
A few week ago, I did the Don Juan bootcamp. I'm sarging like a god. Opening 10's and getting IOI's like hell. The first 3 weeks are going super. Week 4 challenge is to fail 10x in approaching. I'm like frozen, I just can't do it. It sounds stupid but I just can't do it. I begin to doubt if I'm gay or something :S
What the heck is the problem with me. I can't go approach girls and get rejected. I decided to stop the bootcamp and to think about it.
Weeks go bye, and I still haven't figured it out. I'm on study internship and we are asked to write down what my negative qualities are. I wrote down. I postpone often things. My mentor mentions that I should think about the underlying meaning of it. After a few hours I come to the conclusion that the fear of failure is holding me back. That's why I postpone with my school/business. Also that's the great problem with girls. I think about it and I'm remembered how well the first 3 weeks went with the bootcamp.
I come to the conclusion that my fear of failure is holding me back from achieveing great succes in my life. When I achieve small succes, I'm so affraid to lose that small succes, it just paralyzes me, so I don't go for the highest succes. I game a 10 but the fear of failure is holding me back to sleep with her. I'm affraid to make a step fearing I'll lose her. My fear of failure is holding me back from being succesfull and happy.
I found a nice article about this subject http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/overcome-fear-of-failure/
Eventually you must get rid of the fear of failure to be succesfull in your life. It's just a stupid mechanism in your brains which is holding you back.
V-men
A quick intro:
I'm almost 21 years, I'm like 2.5 year in the community. Read a lot of stuff, met a lot of pua's, sarged with them etc. Made huge progress the last years. But I wasn't happy with the results.
A few week ago, I did the Don Juan bootcamp. I'm sarging like a god. Opening 10's and getting IOI's like hell. The first 3 weeks are going super. Week 4 challenge is to fail 10x in approaching. I'm like frozen, I just can't do it. It sounds stupid but I just can't do it. I begin to doubt if I'm gay or something :S
What the heck is the problem with me. I can't go approach girls and get rejected. I decided to stop the bootcamp and to think about it.
Weeks go bye, and I still haven't figured it out. I'm on study internship and we are asked to write down what my negative qualities are. I wrote down. I postpone often things. My mentor mentions that I should think about the underlying meaning of it. After a few hours I come to the conclusion that the fear of failure is holding me back. That's why I postpone with my school/business. Also that's the great problem with girls. I think about it and I'm remembered how well the first 3 weeks went with the bootcamp.
I come to the conclusion that my fear of failure is holding me back from achieveing great succes in my life. When I achieve small succes, I'm so affraid to lose that small succes, it just paralyzes me, so I don't go for the highest succes. I game a 10 but the fear of failure is holding me back to sleep with her. I'm affraid to make a step fearing I'll lose her. My fear of failure is holding me back from being succesfull and happy.
I found a nice article about this subject http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/overcome-fear-of-failure/
Eventually you must get rid of the fear of failure to be succesfull in your life. It's just a stupid mechanism in your brains which is holding you back.
V-men
