"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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.... read their chats with their girlfriends. I dont encourage or condone a person from "Spying" or "infringing on her privacy".

Once you do read the chats you'll see how they actually are. If youre a simp, she's keeping you as her BB option or mocking you on chat.

If you dont have access then read the book The Key Logger by Nicholas Jack.

Trust me. Ive had a girl leave her whatsapp web signed in. Curiosity got the better of me and boy was it a ride.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Never look for a woman's approval or validation. It should mean nothing to you.

I dont encourage or condone a person from "Spying" or "infringing on her privacy".
No? Women do this. Men are not interested in this sort of snooping, schoolgirl crap. Who cares what she says about you.

Once you do read the chats you'll see how they actually are.
That kind of negates what you wrote above. You need to be coherent with your own philosophy and principles.

Curiosity got the better of me and boy was it a ride.
Learn to control your emotions. No self discipline (going into her phone, why would you care) and no emotional control (what she wrote sent you into a tizzy)

If she is on a pedestal picture her shiiting and pissing and blood coming out of her fishy hole. Picture her dead in a coffin or in an open grave with worms eating her rotten flesh.

But don't lower yourself by entering in her phone.
 

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.... read their chats with their girlfriends. I dont encourage or condone a person from "Spying" or "infringing on her privacy".

Once you do read the chats you'll see how they actually are. If youre a simp, she's keeping you as her BB option or mocking you on chat.
Honestly, if she's talking to her friends about you, you really shouldn't mind.
So long as you know what you're doing in the bedroom, and she's happy with that side of things... talking to her friends can work in your favour.
In the past I've had that lead to future 'involvements' - One in particular, I found out afterwards that she'd spoke to friends about me... then a few weeks later her aunt made herself VERY available. At one point during that night, she said to me... and I quote... " 'kinell... V**** wasn't lying " Haha!
 

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.... read their chats with their girlfriends.
1. What the fvck for? This is beta behaviour.

Trust me. Ive had a girl leave her whatsapp web signed in. Curiosity got the better of me and boy was it a ride.
2. Not only this is beta behaviour, it's also feminine behaviour, you know, being curious, read other people's private chatlog and stuff.
 

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So yeah, invading her private conversations is not nice, it's scarcity mentality, neuroticism and incel bull**** - but boy oh boy is it informative and eye opening. Especially for someone who is AFC on the path to becoming a DJ.


https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/lmipzg/_/gnzhwxt

I didnt say you have to go through it. Think of it as insider trading. Lucrative to know information before others. Some people have a moral code against it some dont.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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