"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Fade Away

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The Fade Away
So, I am seeing this girl, I am really crazy about. About a month and a half ago, I pulled the gangi. It worked like a charm, but now she is getting weird again. I can't put up with this **** anymore so I have decided to do a variation of the gangi - the fade away. I need some tips on this. It's less extreme than the gangi, but deep down it's the same thing. It's all about retracting and being way less responsive, without ever being confrontational. Any of you guys that have done this before I would appreciate some tips.

I intend to check in here and post to tell you guys how it goes, but also as a sanity check.

The Fade Away - Day 1.

Sorry I posted this in the High School fourm.. pretty hilarious response I recieved.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Originally posted by clifford
Sorry I posted this in the High School fourm.. pretty hilarious response I recieved.
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You didnt post it there... some nazi mod moved it because they've obviously got nothing better to do with their time. Apparently "mature men" can't handle the concept of a little light-hearted humor once in a while.
 
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What's a gangi or a fade away?

From what I'm hearing, it sounds like you're just taking a few steps back, and acting less interested than she is, in order to build up passion.

I'm doing the exact same thing at the moment... so maybe I could post my results too.
 
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