"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The ex turns up...Nightmare

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Went on a few dates with a girl, end up going back to hers (slept with her) had a good night and then arrangede to meet again at the weekend, but two days before we are due to meet i get a text saying that her ex came over to pick up his stuff and her head is in a mess can she have some space for a while. I then ring her, she answers and I say 'How are you etc, I got your text have a good weekend and we'll meet next week some time' to which she agrees.

I have left it a few days now and will probably leave it until the middle of the week before ringing her again to arrange another meet.

Has anyone had any experience similar to this, or have any advice.

Thanks guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well for one you don't know if the ex showed up because she called him, or because he called her. I doubt he just showed up at her house. And by her saying "I need some space" she could be saying "I need time to bang my boyfriend some more to determine who's penis I like better."

It depends on how they broke up. If she really didn't want to be with him he wouldn't be going over there to get his stuff, or if he did you would be there too. So you might want to find out if she's exactly "over it" or not.
 
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do not plan anything more than FB FWB with her until you know what's up. This is not good but it may be temporary. Don't chase her and drop her like a lead balloon if the X stays in the picture.
 
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Further To My Inital Post

Further to the initial post by me, I have found a post on facebook that says that she likes this guy and it was the day after I went to her place....

ANY IDEAS GUYS???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't have experience with the ex thing. But i do tell you something never trust/wonder about those "facebook posts" or "myspace entries" for 2 things:

1.You don't really know if it's you, and you can't really know for certain for now until she proves it to you(unless you ask her which would be a bad move imo).

2.I think this is the worst case which is she making that post on purpose to confuse you.

I'm not talking by my own experience but i know many guys in real life that have been misleaded by that. Some girls know how to use those sites to confuse certain targets and they don't hesitate to do it.

My advice is CALM DOWN. chill. are you spinning more plates? it looks like you aren't. Give her space and if she doesn't come back then next her. If she does come back that's great!. Also, i think if she comes back but brings the ex back again (talks about it, says she's confused) i think you should next her too, because she doesn't really look like she's over him just yet.
 
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