"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The ex is back...soap opera material

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expos said:
Well played.

Some things to take away from this...

1. Never ever cry in front of woman. EVER. I know girls say they love a sensitive man...but this is bullish!t. OP didn't cry. She did for manipulation. He had the power here.

2. Never ever send a girl gifts, letters, flowers, whatever, after a break up. They will usually run away.

3. 180's work. If you are the same sniveling dude, a chick will NEVER come back. By becoming different, getting more muscular, getting a new job, moving to a new town, hanging with new people, you grow and become desirable to EVERYONE.

4. Girls usually don't change. I'd say that more than 90% just do the same thing over and over in each new relationship. What does change is that they become better manipulators and find weaker targets to dump their issues onto. The OP should continue to avoid this woman.
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Every woman changes but it usually stops at 23, which is why it's risky to get involved (LTR) with young women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any update to this story. This was a trip to read.
 
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expos said:
Any update to this story. This was a trip to read.
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Nothing new to add. I keep seeing her in my rotation of 4. I get the " I will not see you again until you are single" routine every time but every time I end up screwing her.

In the meantime, I am planning a little get away with some buddies to Havana for a weekend. Top quality *****
 
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