"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Effects of Holding Frame

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This revelation came to me just now, having observed the effects of not holding frame in my early days, to now holding it extremely well now:

When we hold the frame, women become eager to please us in any way they can; when they hold the frame, they expect us to be eager to please them. An "Alpha" and a "Beta" trigger and elicit two contrary sides of the same woman. Their perspective of the same woman will be largely different, as a result of her reactionary behavior to each of them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Iron Rules of Tomassi

One of the most influential books in my life has been The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It’s a book I wish every man could read, and I…
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Rule 1: Frame is everything.
 
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Holding frame is the difference between people walking all over you and people willing to respect you.

Anyone challenging your frame through punishment is declaring an act of war.
 
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