Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
And having to struggle is a good thing?bigjohnson said:Why not struggle? Life has never been easy, STFU and lean your shoulder into it.
This country's lost its mind, like I said.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
And having to struggle is a good thing?bigjohnson said:Why not struggle? Life has never been easy, STFU and lean your shoulder into it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bonhomme said:This country's lost its mind, like I said.
I'd say our point of disagreement is not so much what the minimum standard is, SmoothTalker, but whether or not it is provided.SmoothTalker said:No, we shouldn't let people starve or freeze to death, but beyond that, yes, some struggling is necessary.
Not to mention it's been proven that people have a lot less appreciation for something they didn't earn.
I think we both agree that there is a minumum standard that everyone should be provided with. We just don't agree on what that is.
I think everyone deserves food and a roof, and BASIC health care if they need it. Beyond that, it's whatever they get for themselves.
So, provide the BASICS of life, yes. Want more? Struggle for it.
I'm for providing bare minimum sustenance in return for public works. Unless a person is actually completely unable to work I'm OK with requiring either training or labor in exchange for the handouts they get. If they can't be bothered to at least put forth that level of effort then they're not hungry enough.SmoothTalker said:No, we shouldn't let people starve or freeze to death, but beyond that, yes, some struggling is necessary. There will always be scarcity, and by just giving out handouts, you're taking resources away from somewhere else.
Not to mention it's been proven that people have a lot less appreciation for something they didn't earn.
I think we both agree that there is a minumum standard that everyone should be provided with. We just don't agree on what that is.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Have you ever worked someplace and the management and suckups really put the pressure on workers to not unionize and so it doesn't? It's happened everytime I experienced a union trying to come in. And from my experience the crappier the job the less likely the workers are willingly to stand up for themselves. Let me tell you from experience, the japanese tend to "own" and controller their workers.SmoothTalker said:By the way, the local paper had a story recently about yet another attempt to unionize the Toyota factory here. I haven't heard the results yet, but the general opinion was that the bid was going to be voted down. The story also mentioned that over the last 15 years there have been multiple attempts to unionize the plant, all of which have been rejected by the workers.
Now, since union working conditions are so great and Toyota is exploitive, practically sweatshop, minimum wage work, why the hell would workers reject attempts by various unions to unionize them time and time again?
I'd love to hear an explanation.