"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Economics of Sex
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
For HOT women, they still have a lot of control. The majority of men are chasing them and they are chasing the top 10% of men.
End the welfare state.So how can we flood the market with HB9's?Every guy should have 2 or 3. lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whether you are cold approaching, using social circle game or doing OLD... the search for a woman worth more than sex is literally like rummaging through a full TRASH CAN to find a golden ring.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Be a magnet, and that ring will gravitate to you.
RichardTheFrog
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But these girls who want relationships also have **** buddies on the side. They're trying to have their cake and eat it, too. How can you explain that? These girls just want d1ck.
The whole "innocent girl" thing is a mirage.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
I think too often people are projecting there own prejudices onto the world. This is what happens when we become imaginatively impoverished.
The reality is there is a wide spectrum along which people of diverse persuasions and lifestyles can be found.... though that said, continual exposure to media and technology seems to be narrowing that experience.
The base more and more dominates the media, and so the media loses any educatory function it might have. It now becomes propaganda.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
It's an interesting vid from a different perspective than the normal one. Essentially, it's saying that women are working against their best interests by offering up casual sex. And their best interest is in securing a man in an LTR. From a women's perspective, it is hard to argue with this. Further, I wonder if it is also in the interests of humanity.
Here's the thing though. This rational approach - one that looks for a universal and practical morality.. even if just based on economic/ self-interest principles - is fast being lost. Today, people are increasingly thinking in terms of class, sex, power; they identify with a group that is a subset of the whole. The logic is 'post-modern' in so far as it can not even intelligibly relate to the old 'modern' ideal of a universal culture. Now all we have are culture wars.
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The Art of Drinking
Whiskey is both significant and superfluous
Like art it has no point beyond its purpose
An end in itself perfect and complete
No rocks no water no soda just itself neat
It’s made for a lazy day and leisurely disposition
Which paints in hues the old liberal tradition
Contrary to its content is the importance of form
Which is wont to observe strict rhythmic rules
Inversely proportioned to our right to play fools
Though its field of freedom is not of the politic kind
All forms of seriousness it politely declines
Changing colors it's stranger to party and cause
All anxieties it mocks or subverts or just ignores
And in wealthier times when all work for the general good
We slink off to find its leisure a pleasure misunderstood
And in decadent days when ideologies eat up culture
When opposed parties pick at each-other like vultures
There's the symbol of everything civil the drawing room
Where we retire to whiskey and write our doom.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dustmuffin
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Because women have a two pronged sexual strategy. They want to f uck the alpha but also want comfort and security. So they have a bf that gives them comfort and security but no alpha tingles and then Chad the alpha on the side.
Its funny guys do the opposite of this. We want to date and marry the HOT girl, but we will keep 6's and hoes on the side for booty calls lol.
dustmuffin
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All I want is a cute girl that is loyal, gives hot sex and pulls her weight. But.....I'm never getting married again so I will just continue doing what I'm doing. That is screw anywhere from 3-5 women at a time and if the don't like it they can leave, because replacements are easy to find.